The following is excerpted with permission from the September/October
2002 issue of Vestry Papers, a publications of the Cornerstone
Project, a ministry of the Episcopal Church Foundation.
Spiritual discernment is the quest to discover God’s will
for us so that we can live into the words of the Lord’s
Prayer, “Thy will be done.” It is a way in which the
people of God can both enact their faith and deepen their love
and trust while working out community decisions that they face
as the body of Christ. The goal of discernment is to sort out
God’s voice from the other voices in our lives, e.g., the
noise of our outer and inner lives, voices from our past, fears
of the future, and desires of the moment.
Several principles are central to spiritual discernment.
Prayer — prayer before meetings, prayer
throughout meetings, prayer by others on behalf of the meetings,
prayer after we leave a meeting, prayer in silence. Undefended
listening for the leading of the Holy Spirit.
Total listening — deep listening for
God’s voice in other people, in the mood of the group, and
in our own heart and imagination. Requires a lifetime of effort
and the practice of silence.
Letting go — of our own agendas and timelines,
living with uncertainty.
Consensus — an authentic coming together
of the body gathered. Spiritual consensus allows one person to
stand in the way of a decision, thus members of the group must
be genuinely open to agendas other than their own.