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Chapel of the Cross, Chapel Hill, NC
An Episcopal Parish
August  2003
Hospitality
 

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From the Rector
Vestry Actions - June 19, 2003

Hospitality
How Friendly Are We?
Breaking Through Our Comfort Zones
Welcoming the Stranger
Friendship Five Factor
A Newcomer Finds a Home at the Chapel of the Cross
Welcoming Students
Entertaining Angels
Loaves and Fishes Guild
Bread Ministry
Learning about the Chapel of the Cross
Hospitality Leaders
 
Music
Desert Spirituality on the Mountaintop - August 11-14
Episcopal Youth Community (EYC)
Annual Parish Barbeque - August 24
Christian Education Help Needed
CPR/Defibrillator Class - September 20
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Breaking Through Our Comfort Zones
Amy Meador, Duke Divinity School Student

Breaking through barriers of race and denominational affiliation often begins with first breaking through our own comfort zones.  This summer I have been invited to participate in an exciting multi-cultural, ecumenical endeavor.  Through Duke Divinity School's Field Education program I am completing a summer internship here at the Chapel of the Cross.  That in itself is a whole new world to me, a United Methodist from birth.  (Not to mention the effect of throwing a devoted NCSU alumni and current Duke student onto Franklin Street!)  Being a seminarian and serving as liturgist in several Methodist congregations, I feel like I understand worship pretty well, and I find our worship very comfortable.

My first Sunday in an Episcopal church was eye opening!  For someone who is used to standing behind a pulpit or a lectern, to find myself 'on the other side of the pew'- and not having the slightest clue what was going on was disconcerting.  I had no idea when to sit and stand, not to mention figuring out how to work the kneeling benches.  I may be able to churn out an impressive paper on the meaning and importance of regular Eucharist, but I had to ask the person sitting next to me how to take communion in the Episcopal tradition.

This experience was eye opening because it reminded me of how distinctive we are as Christians.  For the first time I understood what it was like to be a first time visitor in a new church.  I understood the confusion and the discomfort that was present being on the outside looking in.  During my time with you this summer, I have also been visiting a number of African American churches in the Chapel Hill area who are participating in SundayCare - a health based initiative designed to bringing health care resources directly to the people through the church community.  Here again, I found myself outside of my comfort zone, amazed by yet another very different style of worship.

I hope these experiences will serve me well in my own future as a United Methodist pastor: both in seeking to make newcomers feel welcomed in our midst and joyfully celebrating our distinctiveness as a Christian people.  We as Christians are a wonderfully peculiar people; the things we do simply don't always seem to make sense at first glance.  What a wonderful opportunity for witness as we reach out in hospitality to welcome newcomers into our midst and as we have opportunity to explain the meaning behind the distinctive ritual acts that we use to express our worship and devotion to God.


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