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Chapel of the Cross, Chapel Hill, NC
An Episcopal Parish
August  2003
Hospitality
 

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From the Rector
Vestry Actions - June 19, 2003

Hospitality
How Friendly Are We?
Breaking Through Our Comfort Zones
Welcoming the Stranger
Friendship Five Factor
A Newcomer Finds a Home at the Chapel of the Cross
Welcoming Students
Entertaining Angels
Loaves and Fishes Guild
Bread Ministry
Learning about the Chapel of the Cross
Hospitality Leaders
 
Music
Desert Spirituality on the Mountaintop - August 11-14
Episcopal Youth Community (EYC)
Annual Parish Barbeque - August 24
Christian Education Help Needed
CPR/Defibrillator Class - September 20
Parish Mailbox
 
Entertaining Angels
Bill Joyner, Deacon

The word 'hospitality' occurs in the Bible five times, all in the New Testament, and 'hostility' is there 15 times, mostly in the Old Testament. But hospitality is one of the marks of the church; we are called to a ministry of hospitality, of welcoming, of providing a place of safety, of refuge, of hope. The mission statement of the Chapel of the Cross calls upon us to love one another, to care for those in need, and to share our many blessings. Another church lists four parts of its mission: worship, education, hospitality, and outreach. In some religious orders, hospitality, along with poverty, chastity, and obedience, is one of the vows taken.

In the celebration for a home in the Book of Occasional Services, the antiphon for the blessing of a guest room is "Do not neglect to show hospitality, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares," taken from the final admonitions in the letter to the Hebrews.  The reference is, at least in part, to the visit paid to Abraham and Sarah described in Genesis.  Three men appear at Abraham's tent in the heat of the day.  They don't knock on his door asking for anything, but Abraham rushes out to meet them and bows low to the ground.  He brings water to wash their feet, and bread, and milk, and prepares a meal, and implores them to rest, and refresh themselves, and eat.  He does not know, as the account reveals, that it is the Lord who is visiting - tradition says that the three may together represent the Lord, or the Lord and two angels, or the Trinity.  But he welcomes them, he puts himself and his resources at their disposal, he sends them on their way refreshed.

"Love ye therefore the stranger, for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt", from Deuteronomy, is also a verse used in the blessing of homes.  Though it was used to remind the people of Israel of their time in Egypt, it reminds us also of the journey of the Holy Family into Egypt, and of our own travels as strangers to places where we are not known.

At our special worship on the third Monday of each month, we welcome our neighbors and friends with disabilities, and we always say to everyone who comes, "You are always welcome at the Chapel of the Cross" - not just to this service, where we make noise with instruments and sing and play guitars, but to our church and all of our activities.  We have this special worship, and invite everyone to it, not to reach out to those who are different from us, but to those who are the same: children of God, made in God's image, brothers and sisters of Jesus, strangers and yet friends.  Our ministry of hospitality at the Chapel of the Cross - welcoming the stranger, as our mission statement says, with "truly thankful hearts in the name of Jesus", with bread, with an outstretched hands, with a safe place to be - is what enables us to say "You are always welcome at the Chapel of the Cross!"


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