In Chapter 17 of the Book of Exodus, a battle is described
in which the Amalekites attack the people of Israel. In this
story, Israel was able to withstand the attack and prevail
only as long as Moses was able to hold up the staff of the
Lord. When Moses grew weary and was no longer able to hold
up his arms, the Amalekites triumphed. In order for Israel
to win, Moses, and only Moses, had to hold up the staff,
but he grew exhausted as the hours passed. Two other leaders,
Aaron and Hur thought to bring a rock for Moses to sit upon,
and, though it would have done no good for them to hold up
the staff, they could support Moses’ arms as he held
the staff. Thus, together they supported Moses, enabling
him to hold the rod and assuring Israel’s victory.
The Exodus story is an apt illustration for the concept
of care teams, a new ministry that is developing at the Chapel
of the Cross and other congregations in our community.
Each
of us, from time to time, needs the support of others so
that we can do what is required of us when we are embattled
in life. When facing a serious illness ourselves or in
caring for a sick loved one, having the support of others
can make
all the difference in the world. Though a care team cannot
endure the medical treatments on our behalf, having caring
folks who can offer spiritual and practical support, (run
errands, take children to piano lessons or sports practice,
cook meals, walk the dog) can give us the strength to get
through what we must.
So what exactly is a care team? A care team is a group
of people with a variety of talents who like to help in different
kinds of ways. The team provides on-going attention and
coordinated
care to those who need a variety of assistance. Types of
assistance vary according to needs but may include providing
social contact, light housekeeping, running errands, reading
aloud, or being an exercise partner. Because dealing with
multiple needs may exceed the ability of one person, a
team works to provide structure and coordination of care
for the
person in need and mutual support for fellow team members.
Composition of a care team is not limited to parishioners
of the Chapel of the Cross; teams may also include friends
and neighbors of the person being served. The care teams
provide the structure and organization to provide assistance.
In addition to ‘basic’ care teams which are assembled
to work with particular people on an on-going basis, it is
conceivable that care teams might be created to attend specific
tasks for several “care friends.” These would
be called “mission” care teams. For example,
one local congregation has a youth care team dedicated to
raking leaves for people who are frail. Though not originally
structured as such, our Parish Visitors may be thought of
as a care team whose mission is to visit all those who are
homebound in the parish. Our Good Samaritans Guild’s
mission is to deliver casseroles, run errands, or provide
transportation to people who need assistance on a short-term
basis.
The model and training for Chapel of the Cross Care Teams
follows that developed by the Care Team Network at the
University of Alabama Medical Center. (Check out their web
site at www.careteam.org)
Project Compassion, a local affiliate of the Care Team
Network, is providing training and support for our congregation
and
others in the community as a part of their Care Team Initiative.
(www.project-compassion.org)
People receiving help are termed “care friends.” “Care
friends” define the needs to be addressed. They understand
that team members work together and so must communicate openly
with each other; but outside the team, all communications
are confidential. It is also understood that, though the
care team will try its best, it may not be able to meet all
requests.
Training for care team members is done in one session,
typically lasting three hours. The commitment to serve is “as
long as there is joy in the work” with the stipulation
that, when it becomes necessary to leave, good-byes will
be said to the “care friend” and to fellow team
members.
We currently have two care teams in place, for which more
members would be welcome. If you find yourself called to
this type of ministry or if you know of anyone who might
benefit from this ministry, please
contact me.
I also encourage you to visit the Care Team Network and
Project Compassion Web sites.