From the Rector
Dear Friends,
For some time now, a deep desire of my heart has been
for us at the Chapel of the Cross to grow in financial stewardship.
By that I do not mean, “I wish we had more money.” To
grow in financial stewardship is to grow in faith. It is to
integrate more deeply into our daily lives the love of God and our
neighbor. We are called to do this individually and communally.
Individually, each of us is to wrestle with our
priorities. Whether we are just beginning our schooling or our
adult lives or whether we are well on into retirement, there is a
constant pull at us only to serve ourselves, to put ourselves
before God and neighbor. We have many present necessities to attend
to and many future needs to plan for. Most often we feel our
resources are in short supply. The temptation is strong not to give
back generously of what we have already been given. We will do
that, we tell ourselves, once we have been blessed with more. For
now, we will manage as best we can.
“Christian stewardship,” it has been said,
however, “is more than the management of things; it is the
refusal to let things manage us.” It is the determination to
recognize God's lavish generosity with our own and to trust
that God will continue to provide for us and for our needs. Not
that we should be foolish and not plan for the future; but we
should also not be foolish by trusting only in ourselves. When we
can look beyond our financial anxieties and return thanks to God by
giving away a proportion of what we have been given, we will grow
in love and generosity and gratitude, as well as in freedom and
peace and joy.
Communally too, we are called to grow in financial
stewardship. Our vision as the Chapel of the Cross is to be one of
service to God and of mission to others. Even the money we
“spend on ourselves” is to equip us for mission and to
enable us to worship God and to be a witness to others. A good
portion of our budget goes beyond the parish. The ABC Sale proceeds
are all given away. We make our buildings available at no charge
for gatherings and activities of other community and university and
diocesan ministries. I am very happy that we have a vestry policy
of tithing beyond the parish all undesignated bequests and
extraordinary gifts. Over the years we have grown enormously in our
financial stewardship.
But we should not be satisfied. We have all been
given so much, and there is so much more we could be doing. Imagine
how much more fruitful our communal stewardship would be if each of
us grew in our individual financial stewardship by just one
percent! Not only would we each be growing in faith and operating
out of an expansive and joyful theology of abundance rather than a
theology of scarcity, but as a parish we would be becoming the good
and faithful stewards God calls us to be.
We are on that road. I deeply hope that we will
continue together on that joyful
journey.
- Stephen
Vestry Actions—August 26, 2003
At its August meeting, the vestry:
- Elected Jean DeSaix to fill the unexpired vestry
term of Barbara Tolin Rowan
- Received an update on the Orange County Mission
and learned that the bishop has approved the new name of The
Episcopal Church of the Advocate
- Allocated the sum of $871.50 from Undesignated
Memorials to purchase a Lectern Bible and a Gospel Book to present
to The Episcopal Church of the Advocate
- Received a report from the FreshLook Committee on
campus ministry
- Learned of plans to document stewardship of time
and talents by parish volunteers
- Allocated the sum of $6250 from Undesignated Gifts
and Bequests for the purchase of replacement computer hardware, as
requested by the parish administrator
- Approved the nominations of Peggy Pratt, Jimmy
Satterwhite, Chick White, and Caroline Alexander Williams to the
Social Ministry Committee
- Approved the recommendation of the Social Ministry
Committee to disburse funds in the amount of $500 from
discretionary outreach funds to VATECH (formerly Vosloorus AIDS
Training Education Counseling and Home Care)
- Accepted with gratitude a gift of $500 in memory
of Robert Wilson, this gift designated by donor Bert Kaplan for the
“Sacred Verse Program.”
From the Senior Warden
Dear Parishioners,
As we go into the fall, the vestry begins to turn its
attention toward setting financial and programmatic goals for the
coming year.
There are a number of things we'd like to do. A
long-standing priority is to start a ministry to the senior adult
population of our parish by funding a part- or full-time staff
position to attend to their special needs. We shall also want to
provide some continuing support to the new Orange County mission
parish, Church of the Advocate, as it sets off on its own.
Meanwhile we've grown to the point in our own
worship and programs that we'd like to increase the position
of Associate for Pastoral Care from part-time to full-time. Two
years ago, we increased our organist-choirmaster position to
full-time, but we have not increased funding commensurately for
choir and music programs to take full advantage of Van Quinn's
greater availability.
We'd like to improve our young adult ministry to
appeal more to that crucial younger population, perhaps by adding
administrative staff support for campus ministry and youth.
We'd also like to restore funding for youth mission trips,
which we eliminated in 2003 because of a tight budget.
We need to increase the outreach and social ministry
programs of the Chapel of the Cross. Funding for outreach was
frozen this year because of the budget situation. And we
desperately need to increase support for the wonderful staff who
serve our parish so well. This year, the priests and administrative
staff received only the bare cost-of-living increase of only 1.4
percent. We also reduced the hours of our staff administrator.
The goal we have established for ourselves is to
fully fund our operating budget from pledge and investment income,
including the desired programmatic growth and the equitable
increases due our staff. We are fortunate that ours is a vibrant
parish with the vision and steadfastness to achieve these goals.
Though the last two years were difficult financially and the vestry
was forced to make hard programmatic choices to balance the budget,
I am confident that with our renewed spirit of stewardship the 2004
Annual Giving Campaign will allow us to achieve our goals. Yours in
Christ,
Ted Vaden
Senior Warden
Annual Giving—A Changing Vista
Paul Carew, Junior Warden
A few days ago a friend and fellow parishioner asked
me a very pointed question about this fall's Annual Giving
Campaign: “What happened to the Every Member Canvass?”
Having known this person for a number of years, I think he felt
this was a classic example of my long-standing penchant for
tinkering with names and titles — like the Renault automobile
commercial of years past. I suspect there is a bit of truth to this
friendly assertion, however, this change of title reflects the
parish's evolving vision of stewardship.
For many of us, the Every Member Canvass has been an
event that began with a sermon or two followed by the delivery of a
packet or envelope that included a pledge card to be filled out and
returned. Task completed. But stewardship is much greater than
completing and mailing in one's pledge card, important as that
process is. Stewardship is the act of using the gifts God has given
us to do the work He has called us to do. As I mentioned in a
previous article, a thoughtful way to view stewardship is through
the seasons of the year and I feel it is worthwhile repeating.
- Spring (Your Call) — Have you
discovered God's call to you? What are your God-given
talents? What are you called to do at the Chapel of the
Cross?
- Summer (Your Self) — Have you taken
care of your spiritual needs? Taking care of yourself is also an
act of stewardship. Have you thought of attending a spiritual
retreat?
- Fall (Your Thanks) — Have you
inventoried the gifts you have been given? What is it about the
Chapel of the Cross that makes it important in your life?
- Winter (Your Future) — Have you
planned your future and taken care of your responsibilities and
last needs? Have you discerned your lasting commitment to
others?
Annual Giving is a reflection of our spiritual
journey throughout the year rather than the single event associated
with the Every Member Canvass. It gives us the opportunity to
express the importance of the Chapel of the Cross in our lives
through our generosity of time, talent, and treasure and permits us
a broader vision of our calling to do God's work in our
community—it gives us a feeling of accomplishment through all
the seasons of the year.
Faithful Stewards: The Annual Giving Campaign
Terry Johnston and Ann Henley, Committee
Co-chairs
The vestry of the Chapel of the Cross recently
reorganized its stewardship committee and renamed it the
Stewardship Formation Committee. This was done to encourage a
broadly defined variety of stewardship efforts and initiatives,
including expanded participation by parishioners in stewardship
activities. The first of these initiatives will soon be under way.
Though the name, the Annual Giving Campaign, will be new—in
the past it's been the Every Member Canvass—and though it
is now part of a comprehensive, year-round focus on stewardship,
this yearly event in the life of our parish will follow familiar
procedures and have familiar objectives as its goals.
In mid-October each household in the parish will
receive a pledge card and a time and talent survey in the mail. On
Sunday, October 19, a vestry forum will discuss stewardship and,
more specifically, the financial needs and the annual giving vision
of the parish. On the evenings of October 21 and 22, approximately
50 parishioners will gather to call every parish household to
encourage participation in this year's Annual Giving Campaign.
November 23 will be In-Gathering Sunday, when we will celebrate the
pledges brought forward and dedicate them to the furthering of
God's work in the world.
If you do not receive a pledge packet by October 17,
please call the parish office (919-929-2193), Terry Johnston
, or Ann Henley so that another packet
can be sent to you. You may, if it's more convenient, submit
your pledge and fill out the time and talent survey online through
the parish website, www.thechapelofthecross.org. But we hope that
many of you will be at home on October 21 and 22, when your fellow
parishioners will call to say, “Hello. Did you receive your
packet in the mail? Do you have any question about the Chapel of
the Cross and its financial mission?” We would like you to
think of this part of the campaign as belonging, not just to the
church's ministry of stewardship, but also to its ministry of
hospitality. These phone calls offer us an opportunity each fall to
connect with each other in a parish which, as the rector recently
remarked, is “no longer small, and no longer in a little
village.”
On many occasions in the coming weeks we will have
occasion to think prayerfully about our financial resources and
about our obligation, as members of the Body of Christ, to remit a
portion of those resources to our church. As we make those
difficult dollar decisions, let us keep in mind the word of the
collect for Thanksgiving Day, which we will pray together just a
few days after In-Gathering Sunday.
In that prayer we ask to be made “faithful
stewards” of God's great bounty, “for the provision
of our necessities and the relief of all who are in need, to the
glory of your Name.” Each of those phrases reminds us of an
important aspect of the duty and the blessing of stewardship. In
the first place, our gifts provide the everyday
'necessities' of the parish life we all enjoy:
maintenance, quite literally, of the roof over our head; salaries
and insurance for clergy and staff; materials for Christian
education; and the technologies required to communicate with each
other. Our gifts provide, in the second place, for “all who
are in need”: relief for victims of natural disasters and
wars, food for the hungry through our commitment to the Inter-Faith
Council, clothing and other essentials for children at the Thompson
Home, and support and comfort for those with HIV-AIDS. And
finally, our gifts provide us a tangible way to praise and honor
God: we “glorify His Name” when we return to Him a
portion of the bounty with which He has so generously and
graciously blessed us.
A TITHE, A TITHE-O
Many parishioners are aware of the rector's love
of 'rewriting' songs to familiar tunes.
Try this one to the tune of “Cockles and Mussels”.
As Christian believers we know we're
receivers
Of all that we are and of all we
“possess.”
God's generous giving calls forth our own
living
In joyful thanksgiving for such lavishness!
A tithe, a tithe-o, a tithe, a tithe-o,
Of thine own do we give thee, a
tithe, a tithe-o.
In church on a Sunday, I found out that Monday
And all of the other weekdays are God's too.
By giving God one day, we consecrate Monday
And Wednesday and Friday: they all are God's
due.
In terms of our treasure, the same is the
measure:
We hallow the whole by the part set aside.
To give a proportion prevents the distortion
Of seeing our wealth as the source of our pride.
(Repeat first verse)
Reflections on the Chapel of the Cross
Margaret and Reid Conrad
This summer our family gazed at the stars from open
pastures in South Carolina and from planetarium seats in Boston.
Then we watched as Mars came into perfect world view. To study the
heavens is to understand awe. But a close second is to watch a
child watching the sky. You see the delight of discovery as
individual stars and planets are recognized and then the greater
wonder over the relationships of constellations and galaxies.
When asked to write our thoughts about stewardship
and the Chapel of the Cross, it seemed an apt analogy. The Chapel
of the Cross has been so good to us. Our sense of the Chapel Hill
community is grounded in our congregation. Over the past 10 years
some of our deepest friendships have grown from this parish. Since
our children were quite small they have been involved in a number
of the many opportunities our church offers families. Sunday
school, preschool, vacation church school, chapel, children's
choir, christenings, pageants. They have also been
'included' in an array of adult-related activities.
Helping sort and set up for the ABC sale, preparing food for the
homeless shelter, setting up for Sunday school lessons, cooking for
Habitat workers, waiting-waiting-waiting during long meetings for
church school, long-term planning, personnel, ABC sale,
preschool…each of these opportunities has provided us with
different gifts. Our youngest, Lucille, especially remembers
taking communion from Tammy. For nine-year old Matson, hearing the
bishop's sermon was an important event. Adams, at 12, has the
long, happy memory of a decade of Christmas pageants, even from the
perspective of the back end of a camel. Margaret watched in
gratitude as a fellow parishioner reached out and guided her
brother in Iowa through a difficult overseas adoption. Reid will
always remember a New Year's evening christening in the
Chapel.
When you pause to reflect on the breadth of
opportunities for families and individuals in our parish, it is
wide. As our children grow older it is bringing all those different
activities into focus and relationship that is the challenge. It is
finding God in the face of another child at school more easily
because you've been taught to look for God not only in the
sacred but also unexpected places. It is working to balance the
demands of family, profession, community, and self, with the
support and wisdom of clergy and church friends. It's bringing
the serene, transcending loveliness of our sanctuary and church
community to our home, school, and work. It's committing the
time and energy for our family individually and as a whole to find
our spiritual constellation. This is what stewardship means to us:
the receiving that inspires the giving until the two are
indistinguishable.
Stewardship: A Personal Perspective
Watson A. Bowes, Jr.
There are, in my view, two levels of Christian
stewardship. The first and most straightforward level is the direct
financial and personal support of our parish, the Chapel of the
Cross. If I expect to participate in the liturgy, to benefit from
the educational programs, to enjoy sacred music, to engage in
Christian social ministry through the parish and to have my family
ministered to by the clergy — if I expect all of this, I have
an obligation to support the parish financially. The biblical
guidelines for financial stewardship vary from the ancient
description of tithes for the “Levites, sojourners, the
fatherless and the widow” (Deut 26:12) to the example of the
poor widow who gave everything she had (Mark 12:42). Both of these
biblical examples of financial stewardship exceed by a substantial
margin the practice of most Episcopalians (me included).
Contributions of personal service are surrogates of
financial contributions. Indeed, our parish could hardly function
without the volunteer services of so many of its parishioners:
church-school teachers, choir members, acolytes, altar guild
members, lay readers, office volunteers, Loaves and Fishes members,
vestry, etc. Also, there are the countless hours of Christian
social ministry performed by volunteers: involvement in Habitat for
Humanity, prison ministry, AIDS care, ABC Sale, and Inter-Faith
Council, to mention just a few.
There is, however, a more profound dimension of
Christian stewardship that has little to do with direct support of
the daily life of our parish. This stewardship of our personal
lives is made difficult by living in a consumer dominated, secular
society, in which we are measured by how much we own, the number of
academic degrees we have acquired, how much power we wield, or how
much political influence we can exert. C.S. Lewis pointed out that
the only books we will have in our library in heaven are the ones
we have given away. And G.K. Chesterton warns us that the world
catches us by the fringes of our garments, the futile externals of
our lives. The stewardship that addresses the necessity of our soul
is that which requires turning one's back on the cultural
paradigms of acquisition, power, and influence. The biblical
guideline for this stewardship is the rich, young ruler who, after
following all of the ancient rules, was admonished to sell what he
possessed and follow Jesus (Matthew 19:16-22). Historical examples
are, among others, St. Francis, Mother Teresa, or the 19th century
nameless Russian pilgrim who wandered about praying ceaselessly,
“Jesus Christ have mercy on me.” The goal of this soul
cleansing stewardship is not 10 percent of our net worth, but 100
percent of our being. Though we are all constrained by exigencies
of our circumstances and the goal may seem unattainable, I suspect
we will, in the final accounting, be judged by the effort we have
made in this endeavor.
With Grateful Hearts
Bob and Mary Chase
Our favorite definition of stewardship is
“everything we do after we say 'yes' to God.”
Stewardship for us has been believing that because we have been
made in God's image, we are stewards of all creation and, as
stewards, we have been called to be faithful servants. Stewardship
has been a lifelong journey and we have been allowed to choose
whether or not we will be intentional managers of our time, our
talent, and our treasure or to deny whose we are.
Giving was a part of our lives early on. We grew up
in the same small town in Texas (Port Arthur), Bob as an
Episcopalian, and Mary in the Presbyterian Church. Bob has
wonderful memories of a 9:00 Sunday morning worship service
primarily for the children — a shortened service with Sunday
School following at 9:45, a children's sermon, and a special
offertory time (for the adults, too — Episcopalians never pass
the plate twice!) Mary remembers that in her family all of the
children had their very own offertory envelopes. And, each was
given an allowance of 15 cents — one nickel to save, one to
give, and one to spend — a great training ground for financial
stewardship!
Over these past 40 years, things haven't always
turned out the way we expected and our prayers haven't always
been answered in the way we asked, but our lives have been made
rich by God's abounding grace. The world has begun to slow
down a bit for us and we have had a chance to see things with new
eyes—quiet days together; running into Mary's dad while
out on errands and having the time, just the two of us, to stop for
a leisurely lunch; hearing the first cry of all our grandchildren;
having all three of our children enfold us with loving arms just
when we needed them most; being given this parish family and our
amazing college students here at the Chapel of the Cross.
Ours has been a journey given to us by a loving God,
one filled with purpose, meaning, and a sense of satisfaction: a
life of faith, a gift given by grace, that in the end will be like
no other. God has always been with us and always will be even as we
are born into a new beginning — a life hereafter that we, for
now, cannot even imagine. In the words of the Prayer Book, may the
God, whose loving hand has given us all that we possess, give us
the grace to be faithful stewards of His bounty.
Treasures and Hearts
Susan Swanson
For where your treasure is,
there your heart will be also.
(Matthew 6:21)
An important component of my understanding and
experience of membership in the body of Christ is my obligation to
contribute to the spread of the kingdom of God. This can certainly
be accomplished in many ways and it is invariably a challenge to me
to decide where the commitments I make of my time and money each
year can be best directed. To be a faithful steward of the gifts
God has given me implies that I should take care to use them in a
way that brings the greatest return on the investment.
I have been a communicant at the Chapel of the Cross
for many years. My husband and I were married and our children
baptized here. I have participated in many parish activities and
offered my service in various capacities, and I have joined in
receiving the benefits of membership in a loving Christian family:
shared worship, spiritual nourishment, friendships, and the support
of the community. Looking back, it seems that what I have received
from this parish and other spiritual communities over the years has
been in direct proportion to what I have given to them of myself,
in financial contributions and in commitments of my time and
talents.
In fact, it seems to me that in a thriving church the
whole far exceeds the sum of its parts. When the members of the
parish are giving the cream of all their hearts to serve God and
build up the community, the glory and love of God are expressed and
radiate outward from among us. It is an incredible blessing to be
part of such a community. It can't be experienced by hiding
under my light under a bushel and letting 'the church' do
everything for me, but rather by boldly accepting the fact that I
am, together with other parishioners, 'the church,' and
by offering my finest gifts that will enable God's kingdom to
grow and flourish.
Stewardship: What Does it Mean for Us and for God's Creation?
Linda Rimer, Environmental Stewardship Committee Chair
By now, most of us are pretty familiar with the
concept of stewardship. In case you want to see a formal
definition, here is one for you to consider: “The conducting,
supervising, or managing of something; especially the careful and
responsible management of something entrusted to one's
care.”
Certainly our Church and our parish deserve our best
stewardship efforts, and our faith demands such. But what about our
planet, Earth? God made the earth. The Psalmist tells us “the
earth is the Lord's and all that is in it” (Psalm 24:1).
We are part of the created order, not separate from it; and our
first calling by God is to be the caretakers of creation (Genesis
2:4b-8, 15). In Genesis 1:31 we read: “Then God saw everything
that He had made, and indeed it was very good.”
In a previous article in Cross Roads, the
Environmental Stewardship Committee asked you to consider whether
God would say that about His creation in 2003. In fact, our current
body of science is telling us that our earth is in trouble. Bad air
quality has aggravated the asthma epidemic that is occurring in our
state and in our country. Thirty plus years of environmental
regulation of large industrial and municipal discharge pipes have
led to major improvements in water quality, but increasingly,
non-point sources of water pollution, e.g., from storm water
run-off and air deposition, are polluting our water resources in
ways we never imagined. Our patterns of urbanization are destroying
habitat and reducing the biodiversity of plants and animals that
share our environment with us. And in 2003, the debate about global
climate change has moved on from “whether or not it is
happening” to “how fast is it happening” and
“what can we do about it?”
Beginning with the November issue of Cross
Roads, the Environmental Stewardship Committee will be bringing
you information about the state of our environment and suggestions
for what you can do to become a better steward of God's
creation. Individual actions are important. Multiple times each
day, every one of us makes decisions that either help or hurt our
environment. As the Very Rev. James Parks Morton, former Dean of
the Cathedral of St. John the Divine, wrote, “The challenge
before the religious community in America is to make every
congregation — every church, synagogue and mosque — truly
'green' — a center of environmental study and
action. That is their religious duty.”
We are looking forward to learning together and
becoming better stewards of God's creation.
Bach's Lunch
Bach's Lunch recitals in the church will resume
on Wednesday, October 1.
Each year a wide range of organ literature is performed in these
brief recitals,
exploring the many tonal colors and sonic possibilities of the
Kleuker organ.
Beginning at 12:15 p.m. and lasting about a half-hour, these
recitals are informal and listeners are invited to bring their
lunch.
| October 1
| Wylie S. Quinn, III
| Chapel of the Cross
|
| October 8
| Richard Townley
| St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, Durham
|
| October 15
| Thomas Bloom
| Watts Street Baptist Church, Durham
|
| October 22
| Susan Moeser
| Department of Music, UNC, Chapel Hill
|
| October 29
| Roger Petrich
| St. Thomas More Catholic Church, Chapel Hill
|
| November 5
| Davis Ratchford
| Front Street United Methodist Church, Burlington
|
| November 12
| Seth Warner
| Chapel of the Cross
|
| November 29
| Wylie S. Quinn, III and Molly Quinn
(organ and soprano)
| Chapel of the Cross
|
Music—Communication
Van Quinn, Organist-Choirmaster
To the Trinity be praise!
God is music, God is life
that nurtures every creature in its kind.
Our God is the song of the angel throng
and the splendor of secret ways
Hid from humankind,
But God our life is the life of all.
Hildegard
of Bingen
One of my more inelegant precepts in work with the
Junior Choir (repeated in rehearsals almost like a
versicle/response or a mantra) is: If you want something to come
out of your mouth, you have to open it! Similarly, if you want
people to know and understand what you're doing and, perhaps,
participate in it, you have to tell them. Much thought and work has
been put into the ongoing task of communication both within and
outside the parish in recent years. Noteworthy in this regard have
been the tireless efforts of communications coordinator, Vivian
Varner, and websexton, Barbara Tolin Rowan. Over the last two years
we have intensified our efforts to publicize our music program and
to deepen the parish's understanding of sacred music, its role
in the liturgical life of our parish, and its role in the formation
of a Christian life. These communications have taken many forms:
article in Cross Roads, notes in Crossings, newspaper
articles, paid newspaper advertisements, posters, listings on the
“Classical Voice of North Carolina” website (cvnc.org),
email lists, and others.
This fall we have added another, a music page
accessible through the parish's website,
www.thechapelofthecross.org/music. Nathaniel Quinn has done a great job
constructing the site. When you click on “Music” you will
get a picture of our organ console but with a handful of very large
stops. Click on the 'stops' to access the specific pages
which may be of interest to you. These are the choices.
“Music” will get you to a general introduction to the
site. “Choirs” will give you a detailed description of
our five choirs as well as instructions about participation in
them. “Bach's Lunch” will tell you what that is and
provide a listing of the recitals for the current semester.
“Schedules” will provide information about the semester
schedules for each of the choirs and the 5:15 p.m. organists,
together with changes and additions to them. “Music
Lists” will provide a list of all music performed at the 11:15
a.m. Sunday services and at special services, such as Evensong.
Initially these listings will be for the current month but
eventually will offer a detailed prospectus of music to be offered
for the entire year. “Compline” offers a detailed
description of that service and an invitation to worship at it.
“Musical Events” describes upcoming musical services or
concerts. “Organist” gives biographical information and
pictures of our music staff. “Church Organ” gives a
detailed description and the specifications of the great Kleuker
organ in the church. “Essays” contains a number of essays
written by me for Cross Roads. A number of people have asked
if these could be made available in a handy format, so here they
are. “Recording” is under construction until there is
something concrete to talk about. “Chapel Organ Proposal”
awaits pending finalization of the design of a new organ for the
chapel which we hope will be available soon.
Johnson Intern Program
Mary Agnes Rawlings, Program Director
The 2003-2004 Johnson Intern Year got off to a great
start as Marsha, Katie, Chris, Tim, and Sarah arrived in Chapel
Hill over the Labor Day weekend. The first few weeks were busy ones
filled with welcome celebrations, parish introductions,
commissioning ceremony, a pounding party in their honor, and
endless days of orientation. I find the one common thread and
comment heard most consistently from new interns is how
overwhelming the whole process can seem!
In the past, Johnson Intern Program mentors helped
ease the transition into the task of understanding such a large
parish through meeting individually with an assigned intern on a
regular basis. This year the mentor role has been renamed
“parish companion.”
One of the reasons for this change came from feedback
I received from the mentors themselves; some reported feeling
uncomfortable being cast as a 'spiritually advanced'
person. Most mentors felt more comfortable and saw their role as
companions or resource persons for new interns. They especially
liked the fellowship involved with meeting these young folks for
coffee or a quiet walk around the block. I continue to receive
positive feedback from interns on how their reliance upon this
'appointed parishioner' helps them feel supported and
encouraged in the ministry work they do. Some interns have even
introduced their whole family to their new-found Chapel of the
Cross friends and the connections become a family affair!
Whether we call these parishioners
'mentors' or 'parish companions' makes little
difference for it all boils down to the interns feeling the deep
heartfelt experience of hospitality.
I would like to say thank you to the following
parishioners who have graciously accepted responsibility for being
a companion to a Johnson Intern for the upcoming year - Bob
Milliken, the Rev. Bill Joyner, Peg Rees, Jennifer Hodgson, and
Mary Lou Liverance. We thank you for your continued encouragement
and support!
What is Project 5000?
Frank Holt, Social Ministry Committee Member
Project 5000 is founded on an unforgettable
experience in the life of Jesus — the feeding of the 5000.
Jesus took the five loaves and two fish offered by a small boy and
multiplied them to provide more than enough food for a multitude of
5000. Project 5000 provides the opportunity for each us to get
involved in helping collect food for the hungry in our local
communities.
In the parable of the sheep and goats, Jesus said,
“I was hungry and you fed me...,” explaining that
“...when you did this for one of the least important of these
brothers of mine, you did it for me!” Hunger is not just a
problem in India or other far-off places. It is a reality in our
own local community and state. Requests for food assistance come
regularly to our local social agencies and churches, and supplies
of needed foods are often depleted and/or not available. There is a
real need for balanced emergency food supplies.
Several churches are working together to help relieve
the hunger situation in our local communities. Last year, the
Inter-Faith Council provided 6,500 cooked meals each month at the
Rosemary Street shelter. In addition, through its facility in
Carrboro, the Inter-Faith Council distributed $25,000 worth of food
each month to support 3,345 clients annually, and the need is
increasing.
As a congregation at the Chapel of the Cross, we have
the opportunity to help meet the real needs of our community by
reaching out to help the hungry. When a need or problem touches us,
we feel a genuine need to help. A touched heart needs an outlet for
sharing, and Project 5000 provides a channel for sharing with those
in need. Each box of food we collect will supply emergency food for
a family of four for two days.
The Chapel of the Cross's goal for fall 2003 is
to collect 400 boxes (10"x10"x10") of specific food
items that will be distributed by the Inter-Faith Council to the
hungry. Each box provides a two-day emergency supply of balanced
foods for a family of four. Below is a summary of specific food
items that will be included in each box:
2 cans meat (2 sizes: 12 and 24 oz.)
2 cans vegetables (14.5 oz. each)
2 cans fruit (15 oz. each)
1 can of pasta (15 oz.)
1 box macaroni/cheese or flavored rice (7.25 oz.)
1 box flavored rice (6 oz.)
2 cans of pork and beans (15 oz.)
1 box hot cereal (18 oz.)
1 package powdered milk (9.6 oz.)
1 package muffin/biscuit mix (8 oz.)
1 can non-frozen concentrate 100% fruit juice (11.5 oz.)
1 plastic jar peanut butter (18 oz.)
1 plastic jar of jelly (32 oz.)
Project 5000 offers you the opportunity to reach out
to the needy and help show our congregation's concern and
desire to help others who are less fortunate. The following message
will be included in each Project 5000 box delivered to the
Inter-Faith Council from the Chapel of the Cross: “In
God's love the people of the Chapel of the Cross in Chapel
Hill care about you.”
Please participate in this outreach project. Empty
boxes are available for pickup after each service and after Church
School until November 16. The Social Ministry Committee hopes that
you will pickup your 'starter kit' box after church and
return it the following Sunday filled with the items listed above.
All filled boxes should be returned to the Chapel of the Cross by
November 23 for final distribution to the Inter-Faith Council.
There is no limit to the number of boxes you can fill.
For additional information about Project 5000, or if
you would like to get involved in helping with this Social Ministry
Committee project, please contact Frank Holt,
fholt@bellsouth.net
.
More About Hospitality
Welcoming all who come to join in our worship
services is a basic tenet of Christian fellowship. The August
edition of Cross Roads echoed the Chapel of the Cross's
emphasis on greeting all who come to worship with us. Following is
an excerpt from an article by Elizabeth J. Canham, entitled
“Welcoming the Stranger” from the September/October
edition of Weavings, a journal of the Christian spiritual
life, which further emphasizes Christ's acts to include
strangers in our daily worship.
It is often a challenge to move beyond the comfort
zone of our own tradition and God sometimes employs remarkable
methods to lure us towards inclusion of the stranger. The Hebrew
and Christian Scriptures offer many examples of the struggle
between those who wanted to close ranks and others who saw their
role as ever widening the circle of belonging. Israel's role
as a “light to the nations” (Isa. 49:6, New Revised
Standard Version) was threatened many times by those who
believed that they had an exclusive place in God's affections.
Jesus embarrassed disciples and the religious leadership of his day
by intentionally welcoming those who were unacceptable. The
disenfranchised—women, children, lepers, tax
collectors—were received with grace and touched by healing
power. The followers of Christ, during the years after his death
and resurrection, also wrestled with questions of inclusion. It
took a dream on a rooftop to convince Peter that Gentile believers
were to be fully accepted in the New Covenant of Promise, and his
action in baptizing the household of Cornelius led to a lengthy
debate about requirements for inclusion in the Christian community
(Acts 10). Fear makes us strangers to each other and causes amnesia
about the pilgrim journey on which we are all embarked.
[The above quotation is used with permission and
with the request that subscription information accompany it.
Weavings is published bimonthly for $24 per year and can be
ordered at 800-925-6847.]
Christian Ethics Series
October 5, 6, 13, & 20 and First Mondays,
November 2003 — March 2004
7:30 — 9:00 p.m.
“Most Christian ethicists have some awareness
of the history of their discipline. Most lay
Christians have little sense of this history, yet they may well
have a keen intuition of what
Christian faith requires when it comes to moral
decisions.”
John & Denise Lardner Carmody, from
Christian Ethics
The Adult Education Committee offers the parish and
the community what we
anticipate will be an outstanding series on Christian Ethics. This
series offers an historical foundation presented in four sessions,
October 5, 6, 13, and 20, from 7:30 — 9:00 p.m. Dr. William H.
Willimon, Dean of the Chapel at Duke University and professor of
Christian ministry at Duke Divinity School, will begin the series
on Sunday evening, October 5, with an introduction and overview.
Beginning on Monday, October 6, and continuing for two additional
Monday evenings, October 13 and 20, Dr. Stephen Chapman and Dr.
Richard Hays, professors at Duke Divinity School, will present Old
and New Testament perspectives. The final historical presentation
will be led by Dr. Harmon L. Smith, former professor at Duke
Divinity School and presently Vicar at St. Marks parish in Oxford.
Dr. Smith's topic is “The Ethical & Moral Teachings
of The Book of Common Prayer.”
From November 2003 to March 2004, the focus will move
to presentations and
discussions in five areas of current ethical inquiry. On November
3, Dr. Mary McClintock Fulkerson of Duke Divinity School will
address issues of sexuality and gender; on December 1, Dr. Kate
Blanchard will speak on issues of economics and social ethics
followed on January 5 by Dr. Stanley Hauerwas speaking on war and
peace. The final two presentations will be on February 1 and March
1, when Rich Church and Laura Yordy, graduate
instructors at Duke Divinity School, will be discussing issues of
the environment and of business. All meetings will be from 7:30 -
9:00 p.m. in the chapel.
Pilgrimage:
An Exploration of Celtic Spirituality
in Scotland
From September 23 to October 6, 2004, the Rev. Tammy
Lee and Gretchen Jordan will lead a pilgrimage to Iona, Whithorn,
and St. Andrews in Scotland. This pilgrimage offers several
seminars led by outstanding scholars in the field of Celtic
studies. Also included are visits to sites of historic interest as
well as tiny historic churches and great cathedrals; in most cases
local vicars or deans will be present to share their experience of
ministry in a Celtic country. Informal daily prayer and meditation
will accompany regular liturgies throughout the trip.
The Celtic islands are filled with stunning natural
beauty, and the itinerary is planned so that participants can enjoy
much of that beauty. There will also be time devoted to Celtic
music, dance, arts, and craftsmanship—and even a chance to
learn a bit of the Gaelic and Welsh languages.
Accommodations: We will stay in small hotels;
most rooms have private baths. Opportunity to absorb and assimilate
experiences is enhanced by the need to relocate only three times
during the pilgrimage.
Meals: Restaurants are informal, usually
family-run; some meals are gourmet and elegant, others are simple.
All meals are health-conscious.
Cost: $2,700 per person double occupancy (add
$450 for single occupancy). The cost includes everything (lodging,
bus fares, entry fees, food, and tips) except airfare.
Program Leader: Sister Cintra Pemberton, a
member of the Episcopal Order of Saint Helena for 25 years, has
designed and led many spiritual pilgrimages. She is nationally
recognized as conductor of retreats, quiet days, and workshops on
Celtic spirituality and is also the author of Soulfaring: Celtic
Pilgrimage Then and Now.
More Information? An inquiry meeting will be
held on October 30, 2003, at 7:30 p.m. in the parlor. A detailed
informational brochure is available in the dining room and parish
office. Questions may be addressed to Tammy Lee,
tlee@thechapelofthecross.org,
and Gretchen Jordan,
gjordan@thechapelofthecross.org.
“Our Children's Place”—Silent Auction
Do you remember the crocheted hats hanging from the
ceiling of the Weaver Street Store in Carrboro last June? Did you
donate a handmade hat? If so, they are on display, some 1200 hats,
at the Durham Art Guild in Durham through October 12. Then the hats
will be auctioned off at a silent auction at the Carolina Inn on
Sunday, November 9, from 4-6 p.m. Inmate and community volunteers
made these hats, using yarn donated by the Chapel of the Cross,
United Church of Chapel Hill, and Yarns Etc. of Carrboro and
Greensboro. The volunteers are also making and donating sweaters,
knitted coats, scarves, stuffed animals, and doll clothes to the
auction. Our Children's Place seeks to allow children,
for the first time, to live with their mothers (who are
incarcerated for various crimes) in a specially designed nonprofit
facility while the women serve the final portions of their prison
sentences. This innovative program is designed to provide parenting
and vocational classes and substance abuse treatment in a
residential setting, as well as enhance each child's overall
development. All of the auction proceeds will benefit construction
of a facility for the mothers and their children. To make garment
donations, call Yarns Etc., 919-928-8810. For additional
information on Our Children's Place, email
rsshapard@cs.com
or visit
www.summithouse.org/ourchildrensplace.html.
Reading with a View to Spirituality
Our fellowship will meet once in the fall, in
preparation for Advent, and once in the spring, during Lent. Our
meetings are held at 12:30 p.m. in the parish library. Books may
be ordered at a discount from Education/Liturgy Resources,
919-693-5547. All are invited to attend, whether regularly or
irregularly. Please join us. Bring your book and your lunch. For
more information, call Raquel Goldberg.
November 8 - Interior Castle by Teresa of Avila
March 20 - Bread for the Journey by Henri Nouwen
Off to Roanoke
Stephen R. Stanley, Associate for Campus
Ministry
Dear Parishioners,
Together met, together bound, we'll go our
different ways, and as His people in the world, we'll live and
speak His praise. Hymn 304, v. 5
When you read this, my last month at Chapel of the
Cross will have passed and we will have gone “our different
ways.” Jackie, Brian, and I will be on our way to our new life
and ministry in Roanoke. I know we will be missing you all
already.
But I want to say thanks for the great time at the
parish barbeque and since and for the uncounted ways you all have
helped us and cared for our transition to becoming
'missionaries' to the wilds of Virginia! You can see from
the picture of our first barbeque, that we have changed a bit, but
I can assure you that we have grown in more than just height, or
graying of hair or wrinkling of brow. Our family has become so much
a part of this parish family that we have been forever changed and
blessed by all of you. Thank you for the privilege of worship and
fellowship and service and friendship at the Chapel of the Cross.
We shall never forget who you are and where you are and we all
shall find new ways to “live and speak His praise” as we
keep each other in our hearts and on our minds. My new email will
be srstanley@earthlink.net, if you want to say hello from time to
time. Keep us in your prayers and keep our beloved UNC students,
Johnson Interns and Sister Parish partners in your care.
Peace and Blessings,
Stephen+ (Jackie and Brian) Stanley
Altar Flowers
October 2003 — August 2004
Offerings of flowers for the altars of the Church and
Chapel are provided by people who wish to remember loved ones or to
give thanks for anniversaries, for the birth of a child, or for
other occasions. The names of the persons being remembered are
listed in Crossings.
This form is to give the Altar Guild an idea of the
remembrances we have during the coming year. The regular cost of
flowers for the Church is $60.00 and for the Chapel is $35.00.
If you would like to give flowers during the coming
year, please complete this form and return it to the parish office
by Monday, October 13.
St. Hilda's Altar
Guild
The Chapel of the
Cross
304 East Franklin
Street
Chapel Hill, NC
27514
I wish flowers for:
o Church on the Sunday nearest
___________________
o Chapel on the Sunday nearest
___________________
o In memory of
o In thanksgiving for
(Please list full names without titles)
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
Enclosed is my check for $_______ payable to the
Chapel of the Cross marked for Altar Flowers.
o I would like this to be a yearly
remembrance.
o I would like a copy of Crossings
sent to me.
My name and address:
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________