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Chapel of the Cross, Chapel Hill, NC
An Episcopal Parish
June, 2004
Parish Staff
 

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From the Rector
Vestry Actions - April 22, 2004
Inter-Faith Council Shelter Volunteers Needed

Parish Staff
Administrative Staff
Program Staff

Deacon Ordination
Summer Intern from Duke Divinity School
Summer Reading Groups
Parish Breakfasts
Dinner-on-the-Grounds
University Honors Four Parishioners
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From the Rector

Dear Friends,

Last month we focused in Cross Roads on the important contributions of lay volunteers. In this issue, we spotlight and appreciate our lay staff. I feel quite blessed to have such a strong lay staff at the Chapel of the Cross. Both in quantity and quality, it is safe to say that the people highlighted in these pages are the most fruitful resource as a lay staff we have ever had in the parish's 162 year history! I hope you will read about each one. They each bring significant skills, experience, and dedication to bear on the ministry of the Chapel of the Cross. I am extremely grateful that the commitment and financial stewardship of the parish makes their leadership and contribution possible, allowing so many parishioners opportunities to participate in our multi-faceted ministries.

It has not been easy for us to get to this healthy and fruitful position. For years, many on the vestry and on various program committees have hoped for and worked for a full time Christian education director, for example, a full time organist/choirmaster, a facilities manager instead of a sexton, a parish administrator instead of an office manager. All of these important steps have been made possible by the growing financial stewardship of you the parishioners. In 1994, for example, the budget of $633,086 was based on pledges of $524,400. This year's budget of $1,216,352 relies on pledges of $926,250. That is a decade's growth of 92% in budget and 77% in annual giving (the budget difference being made up by growing proceeds from modest endowments and some special gifts). The vitality of that growth is something for which we can all be grateful to God.

But we cannot be complacent that we have now arrived where we ought to be. God is not finished with us yet! Despite our very positive growth, as evidenced by the numbers, our annual giving increases have not kept pace with our budget requirements. As the world and our parish and community needs grow more complex, so must the resources with which we can respond. That will certainly be true for 2005. In addition to supporting our parish programs, maintaining our facilities, and increasing our outreach, the vestry and I have set next year's goal, also envisioned for years, of supporting a fourth full time clergy position. David Frazelle will join us in December. A graduate from the University of the South in 1997 and a recent graduate of Virginia Seminary, David will have special responsibilities for youth and young adults, besides his full participation and leadership in the liturgical, educational, and pastoral ministry of the parish. That will have minimal impact on this year's budget, but it will be a major increase for 2005. While we are not yet to the time for the fall annual giving campaign, I want us all to be fully aware of the challenge and opportunity that lies ahead.

While the staff members do not comprise the ministry of this parish, they do lead us all in claiming the work God has given us to do. I hope these pages will more fully inform you of how that is being done and stir your imagination of what could yet be done!

- Stephen


Vestry Actions - April 22, 2004

At its April meeting, the vestry:

  • Discussed and postponed action on a Johnson Intern Program proposal for fundraising until the exploratory committee of the program has determined the immediate future of the program
  • Approved the recommendation of the University Ministry Committee to commit $2,500 from the Undesignated Bequests and Gifts fund for campus ministry at North Carolina State University, on the condition that the remainder of the $20,000 needed is raised from the state's other campus ministries and that the diocesan contribution of $10,000 is approved
  • Approved the recommendations of the University Ministry Committee to award the French Scholarship in the amount of $1000 each to Amy Lambert and Laura Fairley and the House Scholarship in the amount of $1000 to Katherine Anderson
  • Approved the charge to the Chapel Committee
  • Received the recommendations of the Parlor Committee for improvements to the parlor
  • Approved the recommendation of the Buildings and Grounds Committee for the expenditure of up to $1000 from the Buildings and Grounds budget line item for the purchase and installation of a new pair of chandeliers for the parlor
  • Approved the recommendation of the Buildings and Grounds Committee for the expenditure of $8300 from the Undesignated Bequests and Gifts Fund for upgrades to the HVAC system in the church.


Inter-Faith Council Shelter Volunteers Needed

Jeffrey Cline, Social Ministry Committee Member

St. Teresa's Prayer

Christ has no body now on earth but yours

No hands, no feet on earth but yours.

You are the eyes through which he looks

You are the feet with which he walks to do good.

You are the hands with which He blesses the world.

You are His eyes, His body.

Christ has no body now on earth but yours.

No hands, no feet on earth but yours.

You are the eyes through which he looks with
compassion on the world.

Christ has no body now on earth but yours.

Those of us at the Chapel of the Cross have a unique opportunity to be the hands, the feet, and the eyes of Christ. As you may know by now, the Inter-Faith Council (IFC) will be closed for renovations this summer. While they are closed, several area churches, including our own, will have the unique opportunity to assist up to 24 homeless men by providing meals and overnight accommodations. The Chapel of the Cross will be hosting during July 18-31, from 8:00 p.m.-7:00 a.m. Members of the parish are needed to serve as volunteers in a variety of areas. If you are at least 21 years of age, you have the option to volunteer in a variety of ways: 1) night volunteer (8:00-11:00 p.m.), 2) overnight volunteer (male only) to assist the IFC staff manager, 3) evening snack volunteer, or 4 ) breakfast volunteer.

If you are interested in being a volunteer, you must attend a training session on June 8 or July 10. For more information, please contact Sandra McClaskey, Social Ministry chair, at 919-967-3761.

Please consider helping this important ministry of the parish. Remember the prayer of Saint Teresa in which she says, "Christ has no body now on earth but yours. No hands, no feet on earth but yours. You are the eyes through which he looks with compassion on the world."


Administrative Staff

Gladys Dalby

Gladys Dalby interviewed Barbara Hastings, parish administrator; Debby Kulik, parish accountant; Chandra Cook, administrative assistant; Anne Altaffer, publications assistant; and Tom Mander, facilities manager, for the June issue of Cross Roads.

Barbara Hastings - Parish Administrator

Barbara Hastings is one of those people born to teach, plan, and manage, and she has equipped herself to do all three very well. After growing up in Ashville she went to Western Carolina University for a BS in education. With characteristic efficiency (on her part and on God's) she met Jim Hastings the first day she was on campus. Their marriage brought her to Durham, where they have enjoyed a long career in the Durham school system. Barbara was a high school math teacher for 18 years. Then she served in various planning, administrative, and supervisory positions, including staff development, middle school administration, and gifted programs administration. She wrote the plan for gifted education for the Durham school system and conducted leadership training and team-building classes for teachers. Along the way she acquired an MA in teaching at UNC and a specialty in school administration. In the meantime her husband taught behaviorally and emotionally disabled students and is now a positive behavior coach for teachers. As time for retiring from the school system drew near, Barbara says she felt sure she had been placed by God in these positions to gain such a wide repertoire of skills for a purpose. This purpose did not involve retiring, resting, loafing, or becoming a world traveler or golfer. When the Chapel of the Cross was seeking a parish administrator, Barbara was ready to make her transition. In her position she is liaison between the rector and the administrative staff whom she oversees. Among her myriad responsibilities, she reviews every check written and passes to the accountant the vestry's instructions so that every bill is paid from the correct account, coordinates the work of the administrative volunteers, and makes sure the processes are working for the facilities manager and the publications specialist. Along with the facilities manager, she supervises the work of the student residents, works with the personnel committee concerning hiring and personnel policies, and manages information technology by overseeing the computer network. To assure all administrative efforts are supporting the mission of the Chapel of the Cross, Barbara meets daily with the rector. She is adept at handling multiple responsibilities, and her steady and calm presence encourages her staff to do their best work. At her own Baptist church in Durham, she is director of adult education, does a lot of adult teaching and, with her husband and pastor, is leading a mission to Ukraine in June. They will be accompanied by their puppets, Buddy, Alice Ann, and Priscilla, who will also attend vacation church school at the Chapel of the Cross.

Debby Kulik - Parish Accountant

What would cause an accountant, accustomed to jetting to La Jolla, California, for two weeks at a time to oversee the conversion of a company's accounting system for Y2K, to leave the corporate world and become an accountant for the Chapel of the Cross? The pending arrival of grandchildren was far more important to Debby Kulik than the attractions of corporate life. How fortunate for the Chapel of the Cross that Debby was ready for a change of pace and lifestyle when we needed an experienced, knowledgeable, and steady person at the helm of the church's finances. Debby has a BS in accounting from Greensboro College and has worked in many settings including a bank, Duke University Payroll Department, corporate consulting, and running her own accounting services business. She had even done accounting for a church in a volunteer capacity. She pays all bills for the church and applies parishioners' contributions to their accounts, interacts with the Finance Committee, Building and Grounds Committee, the facilities manager, the music director, and the altar guild. She also keeps accounts for the Episcopal Church of the Advocate. The parish administrator provides approval for the payment of all bills.Debby emphasizes that her job involves time management as well as money management. It is important to Debby that the work is done right and that it is done in a timely way.

Debby met Bill, her husband of 29 years, at a part-time job while attending high school in Durham. They recently moved to a new home in Saxapahaw where they enjoy keeping up with their children (also named Bill and Debbie) and their three grandchildren, ages four years, nine months, and five months.

Chandra Cook - Parish Administrative Assistant

Born in Texas, Chandra Cook had lived in several states before her family settled in N.C. during her high school years. While taking some time off from college she was a preschool teacher and found that she really enjoyed working with children. In 2000 Chandra graduated from UNC-Chapel Hill after studying media production in the department of communication studies. Chandra says she feels lucky to have found her job as parish administrative assistant while looking for work in the nonprofit sector. She has found the position to be livelier than she had expected and likes the fact that it is different every day. Most days bring the unexpected. Although volunteers often answer the telephone, they frequently turn to Chandra for answers to questions from parishioners, staff, and anyone who may call. In her position she prepares the liturgical calendar, prepares the Cross Roads for mailing, prepares baptismal certificates, and records baptisms in the parish register. She also maintains the parish data base of members and mailing lists and performs support work for committees and groups. All this is done while being that unruffled person who handles all those questions and greets people who come into the office. Chandra says her job is truly a balancing act, but she has enjoyed it.

While working at the Chapel of the Cross Chandra has been discerning her long range career goals. She has recently decided to pursue a degree at UNC-Greensboro this next academic year. Having realized how much she misses working with children and serving as a positive influence in their lives, she has chosen to study for a Master's degree in library and information studies with a focus on school media. We wish her success and joy in this new undertaking.

Anne Altaffer - Publications Assistant

Our publications assistant, Anne Altaffer, was born in Charlottesville, VA, while her father was in medical school at the University of Virginia. After finishing school, her father joined the Navy, which stationed the family in Portsmouth, VA and later Camp Lejeune, NC. After he left the Navy, the family settled in New Bern, NC, where Anne and her family attended the Episcopal parish, Christ Church.

Three years later, Anne's family moved to Fredericksburg, VA. It was there, at St. George's Episcopal Church, that Anne first met and was confirmed by Bishop Peter Lee, former rector of the Chapel of the Cross.Anne then attended high school at St. Margaret's School (an Episcopal boarding school for girls) in Tappahannock, VA. Here she served on her student government as both junior warden and senior warden, tending to the spiritual aspects of school life, and was a member of the yearbook photography staff.

While away at Shrinemont Episcopal Retreat Summer Camp, Anne met Bishop Lee's son, James. James began attending Christ Church School for boys the following fall and the two became fast friends, staying in touch while she was away working on her Bachelor's degree in fine art, with an emphasis on photography at The University of Montana. When she returned to the East Coast, Anne taught photography and drama for one year at her alma mater, St. Margaret's, before moving to Durham, NC, where she and James Lee were reunited. James introduced Anne to several new friends, including her fiancé, Brian Asplin, and helped her acquire an apprenticeship with a graphic and Web designer.

After two years of searching for steady work, Anne sought work through an employment agency, who assigned her an interview with the Chapel of the Cross for the position of publications assistant. When she discovered that, not only is Chapel of the Cross an Episcopal church, but that it is also the former parish of Bishop Lee, she sensed that there were circles in her life coming to completion.

As publications assistant, Anne's busiest times of the year are the weeks before Christmas and before Easter, but she is always busy since her job involves the publication of the Sunday bulletin; funeral, special service, and wedding bulletins; Crossings; sermons; brochures for various ministries; the Directory of Parish Ministries; Cross Roads; and the Annual Report. She also has a hand in countless posters, cards, office use forms, and flyers. She orders all the supplies for the print center and keeps the copier, high capacity printer, collator, booklet maker, and folding machine all in working order. Anne has also been the administrative assistant for campus ministry since Stephen Stanley's departure.

Outside of her work at Chapel of the Cross, Anne runs her own freelance graphic and Web design company called, Plus 1 Designs. She is also the Webmaster for the Church of the Advocate of which she is a member. The Advocate's vicar, Lisa Fischbeck, will officiate at Brian and Anne's wedding at Anne's grandmother's home in Warsaw, VA, across the river from St. Margaret's School.

Tom Mander - Facilities Manager

Tom Mander began life on a farm in upstate New York, where his mechanical talent was expressed as a child always trying to create devices "to make work easier and faster," as he explained to his sometimes perplexed father. He even turned their row boat into a motor boat using a lawnmower motor and the blades of an old fan.

Tom benefited from an excellent school that the farm families subsidized to bring in high school faculty from active or retired college professor ranks. When he joined the army after high school, he took a mandatory test that led to a week of testing. This resulted in his taking courses on base and on campus at the nearby Kansas State University. He completed a degree in mechanical engineering but turned down the offer of Officer Candidate School and returned to New York.

Having married a girl from his home community, he settled in that area and worked in various positions in engineering until the bitter winters proved dangerous for his daughter's health, and her doctor advised moving to a warmer climate. Just as he had at an earlier date refused to take part in accepting a bribe to give a contract to a particular company (and was fired for his honesty by an angry and corrupt supervisor), when he had become assistant chief engineering officer at another company here in North Carolina he decided to resign when he found the attitude and personnel policies toward employees to be unfair and heartless and did not want to participate in that kind of business climate.

Tom's principles and actions are as one and are not for sale or hire. Recently he found that his own tool and die business was wrecked by the relocation of his customers to Mexico and the decline in orders from others faltering in the changed business environment since 9/11. Thus, the Chapel of the Cross is fortunate to have a full-fledged mechanical engineer to take care of the buildings and grounds.

He says his job covers everything inside and outside the building. He makes a point of observing the functioning of all systems so that preventive measures can be taken if needed. The service contractors must find it both helpful and disconcerting that they must deal with someone who knows what needs to be done and how it should be done. Barbara Hastings says she simply has no worries about the building with Tom in charge. His expertise is a boon for the Building and Grounds Committee.

Tom maintains lists of jobs that need to be done, categorized by skill level, and he welcomes parishioners' assistance on parish work days or any day. Another responsibility is supervision of the work of the student residents which he shares with Barbara Hastings.

We hope the volume of orders returns to normal for Tom's business, but we also hope he will like it so much at the Chapel of the Cross that he can continue to manage both jobs.


Program Staff

Martha Schütz

Martha Schütz interviewed both Gretchen Jordan, Christian education director and Van Quinn, organist and choirmaster, for the June issue of Cross Roads.

Gretchen Jordan - Christian Education Director

If you have had the good fortune to attend her adult education sessions or take your children to an orientation at Binkley Baptist Church led by Gretchen Jordan, you will know something of the history and symbolism of the labyrinth.

Its message appeals equally to young and old, animating the lifelong nature of the search for God as an activity that, as Gretchen points out, has no wrong turns. The labyrinth provides a means to deeper understanding because, unlike a maze with "tricks or dead ends," its path is coherent, forward-flowing, unending. (Her own fascination in the form has led her through labyrinths at the Trinity Center in Salter Path at dusk and on the Omega Institute hilltop in New York.)

The labyrinth serves, as such, as the perfect tool for the guide/educator called to engage and instruct all ages. And it serves as a near perfect map of Gretchen's spiritual and professional path - which, on perfunctory inspection, has taken many twists and turns, but whose harmonious pattern, on stepping back, emerges.

Born in Pennsylvania, Gretchen's father was the Rev. Marlin T. Schaeffer, a United Church of Christ (UCC) minister serving parishes in Pennsylvania, Ohio, and North Carolina. She was reared mostly in Lexington, N.C., and attended UNC-CH, from which she earned a Bachelor's degree in psychology in 1972.

She then spent 13 years engaged in hospital social work, first in McCain and then in Pinehurst, N.C., serving as a liaison between physicians, families, and community agencies on a team of care professionals. In 1986, shebecame director of education at her Presbyterian church in Southern Pines, and in 1990 she was appointed minister of education at Olin T. Binkley Memorial Baptist Church in Chapel Hill.

Along the way, she has taken coursework at Duke Divinity School and the Presbyterian School of Christian Education in Richmond, attended numerous conferences, and spent a month studying at Tantur Ecumenical Center in Jerusalem in June 2000.

Not long after a chance meeting of Gretchen and Stephen Elkins-Williams - at a Durham Jiffy Lube - in spring 2002, it became clear that her interests combined so completely with our parish's needs for a director of Christian education and the strong endorsements of her colleagues that the search process accelerated to hire her. She now ministers to an Episcopal parish.

After a lifetime of worshipping in Presbyterian, UCC, and American Baptist congregations, Gretchen has become a student of the Episcopal catechism. Her familiarity with the Anglican church began with her brother's attendance at a New York City choir school and service as organist in several Episcopal churches. (Dr. Stephen Schaeffer, Director of Music at the Cathedral of the Advent in Birmingham, Alabama, since 1987, is a respected colleague of our organist-choirmaster, Van Quinn.)

Since arriving at the Chapel of the Cross, Gretchen has exhibited the labyrinthine skills required to bridge the gaps between juvenile and adult education and between the needs of worshipers on Sunday morning and all of the rest of the week. By inaugurating an intergenerational education series, she has drawn on all quarters of the church and several committees, principally social and environmental ministries.

As a result, the work of 5:15 worshipers, such as Fran Finney, is shared with Sunday morning regulars, who contribute to prison ministry at each annual social ministry event. And all ages and abilities have participated in caroling, an evening ethics series, sing-ins, vacation church school, Bible dramatizations, and the Lenten labyrinth, walked just this April by parishioners as young as three-year-old Isabel Balderson.

Whether under the stars at Salter Path, or in the waiting room of an auto mechanic, Gretchen possesses a gift for glimpsing pathways to God and for inviting and inciting us to join her.

Van Quinn - Organist and Choirmaster

The Episcopal hymnal contains 720 hymns, and organist and choirmaster Wylie ("Van") Quinn estimates that he has performed over 50% of them over the course of his 34 years at the Chapel of the Cross. He has directed the musical component of weekly worship for approximately 5,400 (!!) services and counting. Most significantly, since his arrival in 1970, our parish has been home, by the rector's reckoning, to as many as 20,000 worshipers, and Dr. Quinn, alone among the staff, has ministered to all of them.

As if this net had not been cast wide enough, Dr. Quinn has spread the "worship of the Lord through the beauty of holiness" through the community at large, organizing frequent opportunities for public attendance and participation, such as annual parish choir and junior choir concerts, the Sunday night compline services, and the performance of masterworks, including the St. John Passion, numerous cantatas by Bach, the Requiem by Gabriel Fauré, and large-scale settings of the canticles and mass.

He has also served as ambassador of the parish through the "commonwealth" of music, teaching religion, philosophy, and music from 1973 until 1998 at Saint Mary's College in Raleigh, where he was the Fletcher Distinguished Professor of the Humanities, and for four years at Saint Timothy's-Hale School in Raleigh, where he was chairman of the Department of Religion and Philosophy and organist-choirmaster at All Saints Chapel. During the 1983-84 academic year, he was Artist-in-Residence at Duke and conductor of the Duke University Chorale. On and off since 1978, he has convened a Bach's Lunch series to which regional organists are invited to perform on our organ (designed by Quinn in 1978 and 2001) and has been a frequent solo recitalist and conductor in the North Carolina Bach Festival and other venues.

Raised in Gastonia, N.C., Quinn undertook organ study in high school under John Morrison of Queens College, Charlotte, and has studied since under Charles Krigbaum, Robert Sutherland Lord, and Wilmer Welsh. After graduating in 1965 from Davidson College, Quinn received B.D. and M.S.T. (Master of sacred theology ) degrees from Yale University before earning a Ph.D. from Duke University in the field of philosophy of religion, supplying earthly credentials for celestial abilities. Along the way he married Margaret Johnston (another Yale Divinity graduate and accomplished chorister), with whom he raised Nathaniel and Molly, a trained vocalist and asset to both choirs.

For those of us fortunate to have grown up from the early 1970s at the Chapel of the Cross, Dr. Quinn's contribution of uncompromising excellence and his example of faith have been constants to which we refer in marking our spiritual formation.

And as he enters his fourth decade of service to the parish, he begins the process anew with the next generation: under his direction, daughters and sons of Dr. Quinn's first choristers prepare, through music, "a path for us to walk in." They sit just a choir stall or two away from the places in which their parents, as choristers and teenage acolytes, learned new levels of confidence and devotion on the strains of his organ voluntaries.

Seven-thousand-eight-hundred hymns later, he lifts our hearts and minds still. In the words of Stephen, our rector and sometime hymnodist, on Van's 30th anniversary at the Chapel of the Cross:

"Give thanks to God for what has been;

Give thanks for Dr. Wylie Quinn,

Who helps us lift our hearts above,

To grow in faith and hope and love."

Contact information and brief job descriptions of the parish staff may be found on the parish website, www.thechapelofthecross.org .


Deacon Ordination

David Frazelle, who will join the parish staff in December, will be ordained to the sacred order of Deacons at 11 a.m. on June 19 in the Phillips Chapel at the Canterbury School, 5400 Old Lake Jeanette Road, in Greensboro. Your prayers and presence are requested.


Summer Intern from Duke Divinity School

Mark Graves

I'm excited to have the opportunity to serve as a summer intern at the Chapel of the Cross for the next 10 weeks. I'm quite thankful to the parish for working with me in organizing this internship as part of my divinity degree requirement.

I'll be starting my third year of study at Duke Divinity School in August. Before beginning my Master of Divinity program, I earned a BA in music from the University of Richmond and an MA in music (Historical Performance Practice) from Duke. Outside of the academic and musical worlds, I have interests in the outdoors (backpacking), ecology, wine-making, and cooking. I'm also looking forward to getting married (at the Chapel of the Cross) next May!

During my summer internship at the Chapel of the Cross, I'm going to be all over the parish map. I'll be assisting with vacation church school, the youth mission trip to Wyoming, pastoral visitation, and general parish ministry. In addition, I'll be facilitating an adult summer reading group. The group will gather every other week for a span of eight weeks, exploring four books together, with a general overarching theme of Christian faith and its impact for our daily life. We'll begin with Getting Involved with God: Rediscovering the Old Testament by Ellen Davis (a Hebrew scholar, Duke Divinity professor and lay Episcopalian), and then move on to No Future without Forgiveness by former Archbishop of Southern Africa Desmond Tutu. The next book will be For the Life of the World by the Orthodox scholar Alexander Schmemann. The series will conclude with a novel, Jayber Crow by Kentucky essayist and environmental advocate Wendell Berry. I'll also be reading Morning Prayer in the chapel Mondays through Thursdays at 8:45 a.m.

I'm eager to become immersed in parish life over the coming weeks, and hope to get to know many of you during this time.

Mark Graves became a communicant of the Chapel of the Cross in January 2003 and has also served as a 5:15 volunteer organist.

If you would like to know more about the Duke Divinity School Program, please visit www.divinity.duke.edu or call 919-660-3400.


Summer Reading Groups

Imagine sitting on a friend's screened porch on a summer evening hearing the crickets and the cicadas buzzing, sipping a cool drink and discussing a good book. That's the idea behind the summer reading group Seminary Intern, Mark Graves, will be leading. Four books are planned that relate to how faith impacts our daily life. Dates for the gatherings are Thursdays, June 3, June 17, July 1, and July 15. Book titles in reading order are: Ellen Davis's Getting Involved with God: Rediscovering the Old Testament; Desmund Tutu's No Future without Forgiveness; Alexander Schmemann's For the Life of the World; and Wendell Berry's, Jayber Crow. Sign up for one week or all. More details are available from Mark Graves or Vicky Jamieson-Drake. Sign up in the parish office.


Parish Breakfasts

Join other parishioners for breakfast on June 13 and August 8 and continue aChapel of the Cross summer tradition. Ken Stynes will prepare a traditional southern breakfast between the 8 a.m.and 10 a.m.services. Prices are $3 for adults, $1 for children ages five-ten, and children under five are free.


Dinner-on-the-Grounds

On June 27 and July 25 we will have wonderful opportunities for food and fellowship. Bring a dish to share for dinner-on-the-grounds after the 10a.m.service. Tea and lemonade will be provided.


University Honors Four Parishioners

Order of the Golden Fleece

The Order of the Golden Fleece, founded in 1904, is the highest and oldest honorary society of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. For 100 years, the Order has represented excellence and leadership on the campus. While the demographics of its membership have changed over the years, the principles of integrity and honor remain intact. The Order recognizes individuals - students, faculty, staff members, and alumni - who have made lasting, innovative, and extraordinary contributions of excellence to the entire University. Members of the organization, as in the Greek legend of Jason and the Golden Fleece, are referred to as Argonauts.

Virginia Carson - for her creativity and deep commitment to service and students of the Carolina Community. Virginia Carson has been a passionate motivator who successfully guides students to turn enthusiasm for social justice into meaningful projects. A graduate of the University in 1971, she returned to the campus in 2000 as director of the Campus Y, an organization that serves more than 1700 members in 20 different communities. Her mentorship has extended to members and non-members alike, including presidents of many UNC student organizations. She has made a personal commitment to the Campus Y Building Campaign for its restoration and has led the fundraising of $3.5 million in the past four years. She also contributes to the University in her posts as the President of the UNC-CH Association of Women Faculty and Professionals and as part of the Chancellor's Task Force for a Better Work Place. For these and other accomplishments, the Order of the Golden Fleece proudly taps Virginia Carson.

Joseph F. Ferrell - for his service to the University as secretary of the faculty and as, "the living archive of the campus." Joseph Ferrell joined the University community as a freshman in 1956. After his graduation he earned a LLBD from Carolina Law (1963), joined the faculty at the UNC Institute of Government (1964) and served a Secretary of the Faculty (1996). He is an institution at Carolina, providing guidance to his colleagues on the faculty, deans of the School of Government, and the Chairs of the Faculty with whom he has served. His work with University and North Carolina government administration displays both depth and breadth, and countless Carolina leaders have benefited from his insight. For these and other accomplishments, the Order of the Golden Fleece proudly taps Joseph Ferrell.

Edward Kidder Graham

Outstanding Senior Awards

This award recognizes seniors who have contributed to the organization's strength, vitality, and longevity by promoting the goals and ideals of the organization through their leadership, dedication, and innovation.

Benjamin Garren, Episcopal Campus Ministry - has been a fundamental part of the leadership team. As a communications leader, much of the work that he has done has been behind the scenes and has thus gone unrecognized by a majority of the membership. His work was crucial to creating a very smooth transition within our leadership team. He has balanced the pressures of leading a historically significant and extremely active student organization along with the pressures of being a graduating senior. It takes a person of exceptional strength to contentedly grapple with the uncertainties of graduation and the demands of an active organization without any recognition. His support and encouragement have helped many of our incoming freshmen realize their potential and adapt to life at the University of North Carolina.

Sarah Love Taylor, Episcopal Campus Ministry - has served heroically this year in her position. In spite of this being a year of transition, she has been able to fulfill her duties of providing an outstanding worship program seemingly effortlessly. She worked diligently to coordinate with the other priests to minimize the impact that being without a chaplain might have on the membership of the organization. She encouraged members to contribute their expertise to ensure that the new leadership was constantly developing. She's detail oriented, committed, courageous, and executes well planned programs. It was stated that, in 20 years of advising the organization, she is one of the top five leaders the organization has ever had.


From the Parish Mailbox

Dear Reverend Elkins-Williams, Ms. Sandra McClaskey, members of the Social Ministry Committee and Chapel of the Cross congregation:

Thank you for your gift of $280 to Our Children's Place. It will be used to fund construction of a residential facility and a nursery and preschool classrooms for 20 inmate mothers and 40 children through eight years of age. We couldn't do this work without your involvement in the project, and are grateful for your commitment.

Eventually we can keep mother and child together in one location, while the mother serves the final portions of her sentence in rehabilitation and education programs and her children participate in nursery and preschool activities. Our primary mission, therefore, is to break the intergenerational cycle of crime, substance abuse, poverty and to provide a stable home environment for the children and enhance their overall development.

Thank you again for your donation.
Sincerely,

Ellie Kinnaird

Chair, Our Children's Place

Reprinted with permission from The Herald-Sun, April 25, 2004 By Lucy Bryan,

CHAPEL HILL -- In 1842, a university professor founded the Chapel of the Cross. Today, the lofty bell tower, gothic windows and handmade brick walls testify to the Episcopal chapel's heritage, but they do not reveal the legacy of service that characterizes the congregation within.

The Rev. Stephen Elkins-Williams, who has served as rector at Chapel of the Cross since 1985, said that the parish is marked not only by a strong sense of service to the community but also by a refusal to be content with the way things are.

One of the many organizations that has benefited from the congregation's drive and generosity is the Inter-Faith Council.

"We were the site of the first meeting of the six churchwomen from various congregations with the seed of the idea that became the Inter-Faith Council," Elkins-Williams said. "We have been active supporters ever since."

The parish has provided the IFC with volunteers, interns and even a van.

Congregant Bob Millikan said that for the past three years he has volunteered on the church's meal team, which prepares and serves dinner once a month at the IFC Community Kitchen.

Millikan said getting to hear guests' stories has changed his impression of homelessness and been a meaningful experience.

"Most of them are in a temporary situation," Millikan said. "Many of them are trying to pursue their education. Many are veterans. A large proportion are families."

Recently, Millikan has been organizing the Chapel of the Cross' response to the temporary closing of the IFC's homeless shelter. The parish will provide housing, breakfast and basic medical services to homeless men for last two weeks of July.

"Our education director is going to center our Vacation Bible School on the homeless," Millikan said. "They're going to make care kits and make meals and freeze them."

Millikan said that he is seeking ideas and input not only from the church but also from the wider community.

Last fall, Chapel of the Cross participated in Project 5000, a multi-congregation effort to supply the IFC's food pantry with nutritionally balanced foods.

Frank Holt, who led the effort at Chapel of the Cross, said that over a six-week period members picked up boxes and food lists. The congregation provided more than 650 boxes, each of which would provide a family of four with a two-day supply of food.

The congregation also provides for IFC financially - from its annual "ABC" rummage sale to its stewardship policy.

Elkins-Williams said that the church tithes, or spends 10 percent of its income, on unexpected gifts to the parish that are undesignated. The church gave 10 percent of a $250,000 gift to the IFC's HomeStart program for homeless women and children, which lost more than $300,000 in federal funding last spring.

Elkins-William has dedicated himself to planning a positive future for the IFC as part of the task force appointed by Mayor Kevin Foy and IFC President Natalie Ammarell.

Members of the Chapel of the Cross are also devoted to reaching the community through student ministries, prison outreaches and racial reconciliation. They especially value their partnership with their sister congregation St. Paul's African Methodist Episcopal Church.

Elkins-Williams said that the congregation is guided by faith that God created all human beings as brothers and sisters - that when one suffers, all suffer.

"It's so easy for human beings to become self-absorbed and to move in their own circles," Elkins-Williams said. "Obviously, you can't serve every need and fill every gap, but the object is to be faithful."

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