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Chapel of the Cross, Chapel Hill, NC
An Episcopal Parish
August, 2004
Summer Reflections
 

One article per page
From the Rector
Vestry Actions - June 17, 2004

Summer Reflections
Summer - A Time of Planning
Children's Chapel - Learning the Joys of Worship
What's in a Name?
A Little Piece of Heaven
Youth Summer Mission Trip
Children's Faith Formation
Music - To Create Something Beautiful for God
Opportunities for Growth

Stewardship of Our Oceans and Coastline
Church School Registration 2004-2005
 

From the Rector

Dear Friends,

Thanks to all of you who supported me and our family with your prayers and encouragement at the time of my mother's death in Missoula, Montana. That certainly contributed to the funeral being a powerful experience and to the extended family gathering being so fruitful. After much reflection, I did decide to preach the homily at the service, and I have reprinted a portion of it here to give you a flavor of my mother's life and of the funeral liturgy.

...Perhaps no one can be more grateful for the gift of another person than one to whom she has quite literally given the gift of life, her beholden child. While I certainly have found myself experiencing deep grief at my mother's death, especially in that hospital room at St. Patrick's where she painfully struggled with yielding the last ounces of breath within her, the predominant response in me since then has been one of gratitude.

I am grateful for the unique personhood of Agnes Mary Cope Williams. No one has been or will be created in the image of God in just the same way. I am grateful for her long life. Living to the age of eighty-nine, she was given to us as support and stability and affection for much longer than we had a right to expect.

I am grateful for her adventurousness. She not only set up household for my father and our family in many different locations in many different states until we finally settled permanently in Missoula in 1957; she later traveled extensively throughout the world to all the continents except Antarctica, first with Dad and then on her own. At the age of 57, after 32 happy years of marriage, she courageously faced the challenges of widowhood, vigorously living yet another 32 years. Among other adjustments, she learned and got rather good at golf, bowling, and cross-country skiing. After her stroke five years ago, she made an amazing comeback and managed quite well with the support of assisted living. Even though in her final years her adventurousness grew dormant, she claimed, along with one of her sisters, to have been in the early 1930s the first young women in their hometown, Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, ever to wear pants downtown! An early blow for women's liberation...

I am grateful for Mom's devotion to baking! Not only throughout our childhood, but even during our college years and for many subsequent Christmases, she kept us children and later her grandchildren well supplied with generous amounts of her nurturing, affection-filled, great-tasting cookies. Her care packages were always dependable and always welcomed!

Most of all I am grateful for her nurturing in us, her children, the gift of faith. Faith in God was the highest value for her and through her personal example and faithful participation in the Church, she imparted that spark to us. The collect used toward the beginning of our service certainly applies to her, Lord "look kindly upon a mother, Agnes, who sought to bind her children to you."

... All of us who gather around this altar this morning have come to give thanks to God... Most of all we are all grateful for the gift of renewed life that God constantly gives us. No matter what the losses and the pains and the separations we are suffering, God's generous grace is larger. "The favors of the Lord are not exhausted," we heard in the first reading from Lamentations. "His mercies are not spent. They are renewed each morning, so great is his faithfulness." "Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?" Paul wrote in our second reading to those suffering in Rome and to all of us. Nothing, he proclaimed unequivocally "will be able to separate us from the love of God." That is true for us and for Agnes, even in death. Nothing separates us from God. Jesus promised in our Gospel reading, "I am indeed going to prepare a place for you, and then come back to take you with me, that where I am you also may be." Today we gather to declare our faith in that promise and to give thanks to our bountiful God, who blessed us with Agnes Mary Williams...

- Stephen


Vestry Actions - June 17, 2004

At its June meeting, the vestry:

  • Approved the recommendations of the Social Ministry Committee for allocations from the Community Organizations budget line in the amount of $3,000 to the Orange/Alamance Prison Ministry, $1,000 to the Augustine Project, $1,000 to A Helping Hand, $1,000 to Alliance of AIDS Services-Carolina, $2,000 to Freedom House, $2,000 to Project Homestart, $1,000 to Family Violence Prevention Center of Chapel Hill, $2,000 to Orange County Rape Crisis Center; from the Discretionary Outreach portion of the budget in the amount of $350 to Family Violence and Rape Crisis Services of Chatham County, $500 to Freedom House, $1,300 to Inter-Faith Council/Americorps, $300 to Mental Health Association of Orange County, $800 to Orange Congregations in Mission, $2,000 to Our Children's Place; from the Social Ministry Committee Discretionary Budget in the amount of $150 to AIDS Care Team/AIDS House, $1,000 to Episcopal Relief and Development - Haiti, $1,000 to North Carolina Food Bank
  • Heard a report about the upcoming Youth Mission trip to Wind River Indian Reservation in Wyoming
  • Approved the recommendation of the Finance Committee that payment of additional salary and benefits for the Publications and Communications Assistant position be moved from Episcopal Campus Ministry Fund to the wage and salary line of the budget effective June 2004.


Summer - A Time of Planning

Gretchen S. Jordan, Christian Education Director

Summer often provides us with 3 much needed R's: rest, relaxation and regrouping. The schedules that many families tend to keep during the regular school year ease some from the last day of one school year until the beginning of the next school year. Likewise, some of the committees and groups within the parish slow their pace for much needed rest, relaxation and regrouping. But for others, summer is the primary time for planning and envisioning. The Adult Education Committee, in particular, has continued to meet regularly to develop educational opportunities for the fall. The Children and Family Ministry Committee, while on break for the most of the summer, put together a calendar and schedule of programming in May which called into place subcommittees to execute the plans. There has been a constant buzzing throughout the parish as small groups have met to discuss such topics as stewardship, youth ministry, faith formation, and parenting. Here is a glimpse of some of the work being done:

Adult Education on Sunday mornings will include a three-part series on the whys and hows of engaging in Bible study, led by the Rev. Dr. Richard Pfaff; following this series, the clergy will facilitate a weekly lectionary-based discussion class. A series on how faith impacts political action will be offered in October. "Conversation with the Rector" will be offered quarterly. A committee is working on a schedule and topics for a continuation of the Parent Gathering Class.

Youth and Families: The Youth Inquirers' Class will begin with a dinner meeting on Sunday, August 22. Included in this year's program is an overnight retreat September 25 - 26, in addition to a pilgrimage to Washington, D.C. during Lent. Journey to Adulthood (J2A), a curriculum for youth ministry, is being evaluated for use in our parish. A group of youth parents, youth leaders, and staff met in June with the J2A leadership of St. Philip's parish in Durham.

Children and Families: In response to committee recommendations, upper elementary children and youth will include in their worship leadership regular lay-reading responsibilities at the 9:00 service. A new worship education program will be offered to children in the first and second grades once or twice a month during the 9:00 service. A new intergenerational event has been added to the well-received Epiphany, Earth Day, and Advent events: a Lenten program on February 6.

Church School registration will begin in August. A registration form is included on the last page of this Cross Roads and can also be secured in the parish office or dining room. In order to update our rolls, we need all children two years of age and older to register. On August 29 following the 9:00 service, there will be an intergenerational gathering and a visit to individual classrooms to meet teachers and other students. On Sunday, September 5, there will be no Church School, but the following Sunday, September 12, regular Church School classes and adult education begin.

I trust that some of these items will whet your appetites! And when you are rested, relaxed and have regrouped, join us in putting these varied opportunities in place either through leadership or participation!


Children's Chapel - Learning the Joys of Worship

Beth Carlton

Have you ever wondered how parents of young children can attend Sunday morning service, yet still have quiet during worship? This because some of our littlest parishioners are at Children's Chapel, learning to worship in a way that is interactive, fun, and that prepares them to better understand and appreciate 'Big Church' when they get just a bit older.

During the school year, Children's Chapel is held during our 9 a.m. Sunday service for ages 2 - 5. This year it's continuing during the summer season at 10 a.m., both to keep Church engaging for these children, and because the music and lesson leaders enjoy it so much.

So what happens during this special hour each week? Parents drop off children at the playground prior to service, and interested children can sign up for jobs such as acolyte, crucifer, and Bible carrier. With a bit of help from adults and older children (youth saints), the crucifer leads the way to our lovely Chapel, with organ music providing an ambiance for worship. (In inclement weather, children congregate in the campus center, and the procession stays inside the building.)

Just like in 'Big Church,' the opening is followed by a lesson, but here the congregation gathers on the floor next to a small altar. They listen to and enjoy pictures from a Bible story or spiritually thematic children's book read by one of five leaders: Susan Beatty, Beth Carlton, Janine Edmundson, Mary Kent Hill, and Lisa Walter.

Music is an important part of worship, so each child at Chapel is a member of the choir! Led by organists Greg Bell and Jean Leuchtenberg, the children learn seasonally appropriate songs. Hand signs that accompany many of them allow even the littlest choir members to add joy to the moment.

Once children return to their circle, there is a time for both structured and creative prayer. They say the Lord's Prayer and pass the peace, and then each child has an opportunity to mention something special going on in their lives. (This is when we learn about pets, favorite toys, birthdays, and vacations!) The leader creates Prayers of the People based on these charming suggestions.

The Closing provides a final parallel with 'Big Church.' Acolytes extinguish the candles, and the crucifer leads the children back to the playground accompanied by organ music. Parents may pick up children either from the Chapel in time for Communion or back at the playground after the service. From drop-off to the carefully-monitored pick-up, the safety of our children is in the loving hands of Joy Gattis.

Would you like more information? Just drop by the playground before or after the 10 a.m. service and ask Joy for a pamphlet. Or better yet, join us one Sunday for Children's Chapel. You might just find that the simple Christian lessons and songs of childhood are as uplifting and relevant as ever!


What's in a Name?

Molly Dempsey

After months of committee discussion, the Church School Subcommittee voted to change its name to the Children and Family Ministry Committee. Once under the umbrella of the Parish Education Committee (which no longer exists as such) this committee now operates independently and has expanded its responsibilities beyond Church School.

The Christian nurture of our children extends beyond the weekly 45 minutes set aside for Church School. We wish to offer so much more to our children than these few minutes of formal instruction. Our Director of Christian Education, Gretchen Jordan, has encouraged us to extend our role and consider how Christians are formed.

Christian formation does not happen in a vacuum. The entire parish is involved in the Christian formation of our children. In particular the immediate family of a child needs resources, opportunities, and encouragement as it explores how best to shape the growing Christian in its midst.

To that end our subcommittee wishes to support parent education classes, parent discussion groups, intergenerational events, increased involvement of children in worship services and outreach programs, alternative services for children during special services...so many possibilities abound! We hope to address the needs and concerns of the children within the context of both the nuclear family and the entire parish, with regard to Christian formation.


A Little Piece of Heaven

Gretchen S. Jordan, Christian Education Director

Chapel Hill is often referred to as a little piece of heaven. But I now claim one more spot on the North Carolina map which could just as easily be referred to as another little piece of heaven. Tucked into the rolling hills of western North Carolina outside of quaint Hendersonville is our very own KANUGA Conference Center. "Episcopalians of all ages and points of view have now for three score and more years looked to Kanuga as the steady, dependable ministry for good within our church...have found in this mountain village by a lake a gathering place where differences are discussed but with lowered voices...where prayers are said, the Bible read, deep thoughts pondered, reconciliation sought...where the real work of the Gospel - evangelism, education, concern for the hungry, the poor, for those endangered by ravaging disease - is proclaimed...from which the faithful depart recalling and taking with them to neighboring town, distant city, to African village, English countryside the Good New of Our Lord." (From the Kanuga Conferences 2004 program brochure)

The exuberance displayed and praises spoken by some of our parishioners (Vivian and Barney Varner, Anne and Kevin Collins, Martha and Larry Hart and so many others) who have spent time at Kanuga gave me some indication of what I might expect as I prepared for my time there. But even the sparkle in little Kevin and Haleigh Collins' eyes (4 and 10 year old children of Kevin and Anne) could not fully prepare me for the experience. I return to the Chapel of the Cross wanting to share with others the beauty and power of this place and encourage more of you to reap the benefits of a stay at Kanuga, the other piece of heaven just a bit west of us!

During the week of June 20, I participated with more than 200 people from across the United States in the Christian Formation Conference as a part of my annual study leave. It was a kaleidoscopic event designed to engage each person in a colorful and lively array of workshops, worship, and fellowship. Several parishes brought groups. One parish from Phoenix, Arizona, boasted the largest representation with eight adults and nine children! This is a place for all ages. There are camps for the children and youth and inspiring presentations and workshops for the adults. There are also rocking chairs, walking trails and a labyrinth for a more relaxed pace. Evenings offer intergenerational learning and play. The dining room exceeds the usual conference center bill of fare. Our concluding dinner was a sumptuous buffet of seafood and beef complete with linens and candles! Have I whet any appetites? It is my hope that next summer we, too, can boast one of the largest representations. The Christian Formation Conference and the Spirituality Conference will again share the facility space; these conferences will be the week of June 19, 2005. While the Kanuga Program Committee plans a wide array of conferences, one can simply enjoy the beauty during special guests periods. Bert and Molly Dempsey with children, Lucy and Alice, will be spending some time there this summer and should be ready to share more with you upon their return.

A full calendar can be found on the Kanuga Website, www.kanuga.org. Early 2005 offers these outstanding opportunities:

January 30 - February 3, 2005 Listening for the Heartbeat of God with Philip Newell

March 7 - 11, 2005 Bowen Conference with Barbara Brown Taylor


Youth Summer Mission Trip

Mark Graves, Summer Intern from Duke Divinity School

During the week of June 20-26, eleven members of our EYC, along with the Rev. Tammy Lee, Dana Campbell, and me, joined Lutheran and Episcopal youth groups from Washington, Texas, California, and Minnesota at the Wind River Indian Reservation in western Wyoming. We spent the week painting houses and doing day camps, called "Kids' Club," for local children. The organization under which we were organized, Youth Works, presented some challenges of its own and provided a great forum for us to explore our Episcopal and Anglican identities in the face of the wider Christian landscape. We were wowed by the Rocky Mountain landscape, and enriched by the Shoshone and Arapaho culture and individuals with whom we interacted. We encountered experiences and living conditions that for many of us were eye-opening.

Ask us about the trip! We'd be eager and excited to tell you about it. Here are a few of our reflections.

Julia Taylor: "I think the Kids' Club program has a huge impact on the kids. They really get attached to the teenagers...it's wonderful to be able to create a bond between one of us and the kids because I think they really don't have a lot of very positive relationships in their lives. Even though it is such a short time to spend with the kids each day, I think they really enjoy and appreciate us being here."

Kate Williams: "[One] thing that surprised me working with the kids was how open they were and how much they accepted complete strangers. They just told...about their lives without being embarrassed or nervous. I think that...everyone could learn something from this thinking. But I hate that these kids don't have people to depend on, on a regular daily basis. You'll never believe how much I want to stay here and help these kids just be kids and have it so they don't have to become small adults."

TJ Lovejoy-Henkel: "We discussed all the challenges we were forced to overcome, and how. It was really interesting to hear about other peoples' challenges to see how they compared to mine."

Sam Hunt: "This trip has been absolutely loaded with new and fascinating stuff. Amazing views, great weather, different cultures, innocent kids; it has all changed my perspective on many aspects of life. I've never really felt like I have made this kind of difference."

Marian-Kathryn Cranford: "This trip has truly changed the way I view people, including myself. I will be challenged from now on to look at people for more than their outward appearance and to live life to its absolute fullest. This trip has been a life-changing experience - truly!"

Lauren Peterson: "By experiencing the other ways some of the other groups practiced Christianity and praised God I learned a lot about aspects of my faith that I had never considered before...I have learned so much from this trip, both about the Native American culture and faith. For a first mission trip, it was an incredible experience and a true learning experience that has made a profound impact on me."

Emily Pratt: "It was a great experience and I feel like I've grown as a person as well as had the opportunity to help others...After a while I realized that even though some of the people on our mission trip were different, we were all there to serve God and others. This trip helped me to be more accepting of people."

Harrison Fahrer: "This week has been cool in so many ways; it helped me remember who I really am and gave me completely new things to worry about, look forward to, and experience...Like our plane rides, the week had its rough spots and smooth sailings and we did not realize how fast we had been moving until it was over."

John Hoffman: "It's hard to see the living conditions that these people have to go through. It's amazing to see how thankful most everyone is for what we are doing here: when they let us know it is the best feeling in the world."

Rachel Wilson: "...even though [some of the other youth] were totally different from me, we were all there for the same purpose: to touch other peoples' lives out of selflessness and love. So what could I say about this mission? It was a bumpy ride and an emotional journey as well as a physical one, but if I had the choice, I would definitely do it all over again."

Elizabeth Lienesch: "On no other mission trip have I been challenged to look inside myself and think about my religion as much as I have this past week. This week...became a chance for me to look within myself...The mission trip has provided me with an important chance to serve others in Christ, to experience another culture, and to examine my own religious beliefs."


Children's Faith Formation

The parish partners with families to nurture children in faith. At infant baptism, parents and members of the faith family affirm their commitment to guide and support the child along the faith journey. Through words, music, stories, worship, educational activities, and faithful acts of service and witness, we learn and experience the meaning and reality of living the Christian faith. We carry out this commitment in a variety of ways:

For the parent:

Thanksgiving Service for a Child

Scheduled with a priest as soon as is convenient after the birth of or adoption of a child, this service is done privately or at a Sunday service.

Sessions on the Covenant of Infant Baptism

Sessions are scheduled during the calendar year for parents of young children to join in a discussion about what it means to rear children in the Christian faith.

Covenant of Baptism

Baptisms for children are offered on the Sunday after All Saints (November 7) the Sunday after Epiphany (January 9) and Pentecost (May 15); other dates are scheduled with the clergy.

Guild of the Christ Child

Services and resources are offered to families with newborns including meal preparation, visitations, Parent and Kids Play Group, printed booklets and pamphlets. Contact person is Kesslyn Tench.

Education Classes on Parenting Topics

Throughout the year, sessions are offered during the Church School time on topics of particular interest to parents. Refer to Crossings or Cross Roads for specific topics.

Nursery Care

Every Sunday throughout the year, nursery care is provided for infants and children up to 5 year olds. During the school year the nursery is staffed from 8:45 to 12:15. During the summer schedule, care is provided only for the 10:00 service. Joy Gattis supervises a team of caring, trained persons and is supported by parent volunteers.

For the child:

Church School

Church School runs from late summer through mid-May for 2 year olds through 12th graders. This year's dates are August 29, 2004 to May 15, 2005. Classes meet from 10:20 to 11:05. Class divisions are determined at the beginning of each year. Listed below are the curriculums being used. All curriculums are endorsed by the Episcopal Church.

2 year olds and 3 year olds - Living the Good News

4 year olds - Catechesis of the Good Shepherd Curriculum: This curriculum is based on the well-known Montessori method of education using what is called the Parable Method. It allows each child to enter into a deep relationship with God. Children are introduced to the Bible characters, sacraments and familiar parts of the church service and what is used there. They have opportunity to interact and play with altars, baptismal fonts, liturgical colors and biblical stories. The program is designed to honor the child's autonomy in development and relationship and the activities allow the child to work at his/her own pace.

Kindergarten - Godly Play: Similar to Catechesis, this curriculum was developed by Jerome Berryman, an Episcopal priest, based upon Montessori training. The goal is to teach children the art of using the language of the Christian tradition to encounter God and find direction for their lives.

1st - 8th Grade - Episcopal Children's Curriculum

9th Grade - Youth Inquirers/Preparation for Confirmation

10th-12th Grade - Topics and materials are determined by teachers

Children's Chapel

A Sunday morning worship experience held in the chapel that provides the first liturgical experience for children 2 years through kindergarten age and includes music, stories, prayer, and teaching familiar worship responses.

Youth Saint

A leadership opportunity for 3rd - 5th graders to assist with Children's Chapel. Training is offered in early Fall.

Worship Participation

Children and youth participate in leadership primarily at the 9:00 service serving as lay readers, greeters and ushers. For the All Saints' Sunday Eucharist, children are invited to learn about a saint and either dress as that saint or create a shield reflecting the life of the saint. Children process in the 9:00 service. On Palm Sunday and Easter Day, children carry palms and flowers, respectively. The flowers decorate a wire mesh cross in the chancel area.

Worship Education for 1st and 2nd Graders

Children transition from Children's Chapel to corporate worship as they enter the 1st Grade. This course is offered during the 9:00 service several times a month throughout the year.

Choirs

The Junior Choir consists of children in the third grade and above. They sing at the 9:00 a.m. Sunday service during the academic year and on special occasions; rehearsals are on Wednesdays at 3:45 p.m.; older girls and boys will rehearse at alternate times as announced. Children in first and second grades comprise the Training Choir and sing service music on Sunday mornings and rehearse on Wednesday afternoons.

Vacation Church School

Held each summer, this one week morning program is offered for 4-year-olds through children having completed the fifth grade. Youth play a vital role as teachers and teaching assistants. Dates TBA.

Children's Library Collection

Our church library has a selection of quality children's books and videos for you to check out.

God & Family

This is a six-session course designed for 4th and 5th graders held in the afternoon during the spring. Frank McBride leads the group. Information will be sent to all eligible students prior to the class commencing.

Bible and Prayer Book Presentations

In the spring of each year, children in the 2nd grade are presented with The Children's Illustrated Bible during the 9:00 service. Children in the 2-year-old class receive The Beginner's Bible. Students in the Youth Inquirers' Class are presented The Book of Common Prayer at the beginning of the year.

For the Family:
Family & Intergenerational Education and Outreach Programs

All ages gather together for learning several times during the year. These Sundays are usually scheduled in conjunction with a Holy Day, at the beginning of a liturgical season, or for a special emphasis. This year's intergenerational programs include the first Sunday of our program year, August 29; the first Sunday in Advent, November 28, for creating Jesse Tree ornaments and Advent wreaths; the first Sunday after the Epiphany, January 9, for engaging in outreach ministries; a Lenten program on February 6 to plan our journey towards Jerusalem through the season; and Earth Day, April 24, to learn how to be better stewards of that which God has given to us. Outreach programs planned for family participation include the caroling to homebound members in December and a cookout at Homestart (shelter off Homestead Road for women and children) in the spring.

Devotional Resources

During the Advent and Lenten seasons, devotional guides for use by children, youth and families are provided by the parish just prior to the season. The parish offers the bimonthly devotional, Forward Day by Day, available in the church office and at other specific locations in the building.

Stewardship

Stewardship education is incorporated into the Church School curriculum at all levels including the stewardship of time and talents, monetary giving, and care of the earth. Parents are encouraged to develop stewardship habits with their very youngest. Programs to assist in this effort include: pledge cards for children and youth, family outreach projects and other outreach ministry opportunities for children, collection of non-perishable food items and hygiene items for the area shelters (collection baskets are located at the entrance to the educational building), biannual collection of toys and clothing forThompson Children's Home, and mite box collections for designated programs during Advent and Lent. Our Advent offering will support children's programs in Bethlehem and the Lenten offering will support the Heifer International Project.


Music - To Create Something Beautiful for God

Van Quinn, Organist and Choirmaster

After a relaxed summer schedule, the choirs will return to their Fall routines later this month. All of our choirs will have room for new choristers. If you have been thinking that you ought to use your voice (the only instrument, after all, created by God rather than human invention) for the praise and glory of God and the good of His church, or if you want your child to cultivate his or her spirituality in this way, perhaps this is the time to take some action! Please check details of any groups which may be of special interest to you.

Junior Choir: For third graders through high school. The first rehearsal will be held on Wednesday, August 18, in the parish house. Activities for the choir will begin immediately after school, will continue with a rehearsal at 3:45 and a pizza party and parents meeting, ending by 6:30. Boys with changed voices will meet regularly on a schedule to be determined, and will join forces with the trebles on occasion.

Senior Choir: An auditioned group that sings for the 11:15 Sunday Eucharist, occasional Evensongs, and observance of Holy Days. Call Dr. Quinn to inquire about openings and to arrange an audition. For returning choristers, the first rehearsal will be on Wednesday, August 25.

Parish Choir: Sings at 5:15 and other services. Open to everyone, including young people and students. No audition is required. Rehearsals are on Monday nights at 7:00 p.m. All voice parts are needed. First rehearsal: August 30.

Compline Choir: Sings Gregorian chant and polyphony in a late Sunday evening service of Compline. New singers are needed to replace founding members of this choir who have moved. Please contact Dr. Quinn to discuss this remarkable opportunity. The first rehearsal (followed by service) is on Sunday, August 22 at 8:00 p.m.

Training Choir: For first and second graders to prepare them for the Junior Choir. Information about this group and its start-up schedule will be mailed to all parents of first and second graders. The Director is Linda Everhart. Please contact her or Dr. Quinn if you have questions.

"Sing to the Lord a new song!"


Opportunities for Growth

Mary Agnes Rawlings, Johnson Intern Program Director

I read an article while attending Servant Leadership this past year that I will always remember. Dannaan Perry in her Essene Book of Days says, "Most of the time, I spend my life hanging on for dear life to my trapeze-bar-of-the moment. It carries me along at a certain steady rate of swing and I have the feeling that I am in control of my life. I know most of the right questions and even some of the right answers. But once in a while, as I am merrily (or not-so-merrily) swinging along, I look out ahead of me into the distance and what do I see? I see another trapeze bar swinging towards me. It's empty, and I know in that place in me that knows, that this "new trapeze bar" has my name on it. It is my next step, my growth, my aliveness coming to get me. In my heart-of-hearts I know that for me to grow, I must release my grip on the present, well-known bar to move to the new one." The article seemed most relevant on May 28th when I attended the vestry meeting and heard the final decision to close the Johnson Intern Program. It seemed for a fleeting moment that for all practical purposes God had other intentions for me in the near future. I was once again facing that next trapeze-bar-of-the-moment. In the days that followed I learned that several generous donors had come forward to ensure the financial stability of the Johnson Intern Program and I was faced with another trapeze-bar-of-the-moment. This bar had the name of "how to find four suitable young adult candidates to come to the Johnson Intern Program at this late date". In addition, several days later I received an e-mail notification that a reduction in the number of all volunteer candidates across all denominational lines and geographic regions occurred this year in the regular recruitment process.

For me this life trapeze bar journey is about faith, charity, and hope in a nutshell. Faith has to do with my relationship with God. Can I trust that God will, in all the complexities of my life, determine what is needed to help me grow? Charity has to do with my relationship with others and will I allow others to help me with whatever task that is required; and finally hope, the belief that I have the resources to get the job done. I often hear myself saying to my own children, "God does not ask us to be successful, but only faithful." Several days after the realization hit that I needed to have at least three candidates by August 1 to continue this fall I received a message from my daily "God Calling Journal" "All I ask is that you do your daily tasks, you must leave the results up to Me". One of the reasons I continue to reread this 1986 version of the book is that its daily message seems to meet me exactly dead center in my life. So each and every day since I received that message I have made sure that I have enough hope to continue searching to find those candidates for next year. When August 1st comes, I will be prepared to face yet another life trapeze bar; I can only know what it will look like when I get there. In the meantime I spend prayer time in faithful preparation. I think that is why some folks call it a "day at a time" commitment.


Stewardship of Our Oceans and Coastline

Linda B. Rimer, Environmental Stewardship Committee Chair

North Carolina is richly blessed with natural wonders, from the grandeur of our mountains in the west to the magnificence of our oceans and coastline in the east. With August here, vacations are on the minds of many people. Many North Carolinians fall into two camps - the mountain types and the ocean types. While there is much to be said about our stewardship challenges for both mountains and oceans, this article focuses on our oceans and coast, taking advantage of three reports that have all been published within the last twelve months. These reports include The State of American's Oceans by the Pew Ocean Commission, the draft report of the US Commission on Ocean Policy, and the 2003 State of the Coast Report by the North Carolina Coastal Federation (websites at the end of this article).

You may or may not be surprised to learn that all three reports share similar findings and make similar recommendations. All three reports agree that we collectively, whether we are government officials, citizens, or businesses, are falling far short of being good stewards of our ocean and coastal resources. From the Pew report we learn that the oceans are our largest public domain, spanning nearly 4.5 million square miles, an area 23% larger than the nation's land area. The Coastal Federation reminds us that North Carolina has 301 miles of coastline and 3375 miles of shoreline. Again from Pew, we read that the biological riches of the oceans surpass those of our national forests and wilderness areas. "The genetic, species, habitat, and ecosystem diversity of the oceans is believed to exceed that of any other Earth system ... yet, incredibly, we are squandering this bounty."

All three reports identify the greatest pollution threat to coastal marine life today as the runoff of excess nitrogen from fertilized farm fields, animal feedlots, and urban areas. A recent study by the National Academy of Sciences (2002) estimates that the oil running off our streets and driveways and ultimately flowing into our oceans, is equal to an Exxon Valdez oil spill - 10.9 million gallons - every eight months. Airborne nitrogen from industrial smokestacks, automobile exhaust and ammonia rising from huge manure lagoons represents additional 'non-point' sources of pollution that are deposited in our estuaries marshes and oceans from the atmosphere. Other threats to our oceans and coast include over-fishing, invasive species (e.g. zebra mussels,) aquaculture, coastal development, habitat alteration and climate change.

We have much to learn and much to do if we are to become better stewards of our coastal resources. Although our September Cross Roads article will explore steps that you can begin to take toward that goal, there is one time-sensitive action which you may consider taking today.

The North Carolina Department of Environment and Natural Resources will be receiving comments on draft Coastal Habitat Protection Plans between July 13-August 4, 2004. Meeting locations, dates and times are posted at http://www.ncdmf.net/habitat/chpp29.html. The actual plans are down-loadable from this site as well.

Whether you are a coastal property owner or a beach tourist, or even if you never go east of I-95, all of us who live in Chapel Hill also live in the Neuse river basin; we all live upstream of that great ocean.

God created the oceans and declared them good. The 'goodness' of our Atlantic Ocean and coastal lands is greatly threatened. The daily choices we make can have a positive impact on these wonderful resources.

http://www.pewoceans.org/

http://oceancommission.gov/documents/prelimreport/welcome.html

http://www.nccoast.org/SOC2003/soc03.htm


Church School Registration 2004-2005


NEW FORM needed this year in order to update the rolls

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Last Name

Please underline the name by which your child is called!

CHILD #1 _________________ ______________ ___________________

First Name Baptismal Date DOB School Grade

CHILD #2 _________________ ______________ ___________________

First Name Baptismal Date DOB School Grade

CHILD #3 _________________ ______________ ___________________

First Name Baptismal Date DOB School Grade

______________________________ ___________________ ____________

Address City Zip

Parent(s) or Guardian(s) Names ____________________________________________________________________

Home Phone _______________ Work phone(s) ____________________

Email Address ____________________________________________________________________________

(WHERE ANNOUNCEMENTS ABOUT CHURCH PROGRAMS CAN BE SENT)

Does the student participate in the Training Choir?_____ Jr. Choir? ______

Are there any behavioral or developmental issues that teachers need to know? ___Yes ___No If yes, we will send you a "Special Needs" Form.

List any allergies or other medical problems_____________________________

Parents' skills are needed to make the program work.Please check at least one of the following ways in which you can help.

____ Classroom Volunteer as needed

____ Substitute teaching

____ Leading or organizing classroom music

____ Assisting with intergenerational or mission events/programs

____ Making, repairing, cleaning costumes

____ Assisting with Parent Gathering Class or other fellowship/education events

Other ways I can help:__________________________________________________

Please remember to sign up to bring snacks for the classroom.

There will be a sign-up sheet outside each room.


Send items for inclusion in future "Cross Roads."
The deadline is the first Thursday of the preceeding month.

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