From the Rector
Dear Friends,
In a recently published book, North Carolina Churches:
Portraits of Grace, 85 churches were chosen by Our State
Magazine for a "one-of-a-kind tribute to the architectural,
historical, cultural, and spiritual significance of Christianity in
North Carolina." (To order, call 1-800-948-1409 or visit
www.ourstate.com.) Each church is photographed and featured in a
one-page article, highlighting several facets of its history and
ministry. The Chapel of the Cross is presented on pages 92 and 93;
and although the picture features our stately worship spaces, the
write-up focuses on the influence of the parish beyond its
walls.
The first of those involvements cited is our relationship with
the University. Noted in our history is our founding by a professor
at the University, William Mercer Green, students among the first
communicants, the firing of the rector in 1919 for not visiting
students enough, the establishment of a chaplain for students (in
addition to the rector) as early as 1931, and the frequent and
ongoing use of the building by students for worship, fellowship,
and study.
Another outward focus chronicled is the involvement in
reconciliation work and addressing issues of justice and
inequality. David Yates, rector from 1945 to 1959, is mentioned for
integrating the parish racially and for working to include a
"prayer for our enemies" in the Prayer Book. The Rev. Dr. Pauli
Murray's return here to celebrate her first Holy Eucharist in the
chapel, where her grandmother had been baptized as a slave, was
also highlighted.
Many other notable things could have been written about our
parish, especially about its other present day ministries: the
reverent worship and inspiring music, the dynamic Christian
Education, the lay and clergy dedication to pastoral care for all
ages, etc. But I think it is fitting that in this book, it is our
involvement in the world around us that is emphasized. Strengthened
by our Christian beliefs and urged on by God's call, we ought to be
more involved in God's world, not less, more dedicated to serving
others, more generous with our time and our money.
The theme of this month's issue of Cross Roads is
"serving Christ in all the world." The articles present some, but
certainly not all, of the ways that the Chapel of the Cross
continues its significant tradition of involvement beyond its
walls. I hope you will find the stories here as inspiring and
challenging as I do and that you will join me in giving thanks both
for those faithful parishioners and leaders who set the way before
us and for those who help us all continue in their footsteps.
- Stephen
Vestry Actions - November 18, 2004
At its November meeting, the vestry:
- Engaged in discussion with EYC parent and youth representatives
about youth ministry
- Accepted with gratitude the bequest of $5000 from the estate of
Marilyn Buell
- Received a flag and certificate from Robert Champion, son of
Margaret Champion, the flag having been flown over Afghanistan on
October 9, 2004, in memory of those who died in the terrorist
attacks of September 11, 2001
- Learned that Tammy Lee has received a Louisville Grant for her
sabbatical in the summer of 2005
- Approved the charge to the Program Review Committee
- Approved a recommendation to support a line of credit of up to
$400,000 with Bank of America for expenses related to the chapel
organ (as needed)
- Approved the nomination of Syd Alexander as Chair of the
Special Giving Committee
- Approved the nomination of Rob Sullivan as Chair of the Program
Review Committee
- Approved the nomination of Betsy Elkins-Williams to the
University Ministry Committee
- Approved the recommendation of the Social Ministry Committee
for distribution from the Discretionary Outreach line item of $150
to Kids' Club Program, Wind River Indian Reservation, Wyoming
- Approved the distribution of budgeted amounts to community
organizations in the amount of $100 to Girl Scout Troop 47, $100 to
Girl Scout Troop 622, $100 to Boy Scouts of America Troop 9, $250
to the Preschool at the Chapel of the Cross, $3000 to Habitat for
Humanity/Orange County, $1000 to Iglesia El Buen Pastor, $200 to
Virginia Theological Seminary, $100 to Thompson Children's Home,
$100 to The Summit Conference Center, $100 to St. Augustine's
College, $100 to St. Mary's School, $100 to University of the
South, $100 to Kanuga Conferences, Inc., $3000 to Inter-Faith
Council for Social Service, $11,659 to the Episcopal Diocese of
North Carolina for seminary assistance ($2331.80 each to Virginia
Theological Seminary, General Seminary, Berkeley at Yale, Sewanee,
and Seabury-Western).
Vestry Election Schedule
Sunday, January 16:
Vestry nomination period begins.
Sunday, January 30, 6:30 p.m.:
Nomination period closes.
Wednesday, February 2:
Preferential ballots mailed to "bcc" members (if needed); there
will be a notice on office door and in Crossings announcing
nominees.
Sunday, February 13 6:30 p.m.:
Deadline for returning preferential ballots; there will be a
notice on office door and in Crossings announcing
nominees.
Sunday, February 20:
Annual Meeting takes place; vestry nominees will be
introduced.
Sunday, February 27:
Vestry election takes place; results will be announced in the
March 6 issue of Crossings and the April issue of Cross
Roads.
Sunday, March 13:
Run-off vestry election is held (if needed). Results will be
announced in the April issue of Cross Roads and the March 20
issue of Crossings.
Friday/Saturday, May 6-7:
Spring vestry retreat takes place at The Summit. New vestry
members' terms begin at the end of the first session.
Managers of the Vestry Election: Dick Taylor, Paul Carew, Jean
DeSaix and Kevin Trapani, whose vestry terms end in May 2005.
Serving Christ in All the World
Sandra McClaskey, Social Ministry Committee Chair
The mission statement of the Chapel of the Cross points us
toward social outreach: loving others, striving for justice and
peace, caring for those in need, and sharing our blessings. The
mission of the Social Ministry Committee is to serve God by
bringing Christ's love, justice and mercy into the world through
education, stewardship, and leadership through social outreach.
This means to go beyond the walls of the Chapel of the Cross
locally, statewide, nationally, and globally.
There are many scriptural mandates in both the Old and New
Testament that direct us to help others in need. Deuteronomy 15:
7-11 says, "If there is anyone in need...you should...give
liberally and ungrudgingly.... There will never cease to be some in
need on the earth, I therefore command you, 'Open your hand to the
poor and needy neighbor in your land.'" In John 21, Jesus tells
Peter, "Feed my lambs...take care of my sheep...feed my sheep."
At the Chapel of the Cross we have a beautiful worship space and
wonderful liturgy, but part of our responsibility as Christians is
to move out beyond our doors and try to make a positive difference
in the world. James 1:22 tells us not to merely listen to the Word;
we must do what it says.
The Social Ministry Committee provides opportunities for the
parish to put God's Word into practice. Not only do we plan
projects to help those in need, but we also are listening ears
where parishioners can come and ask for support for projects they
want to initiate. We meet on the first Sunday of the month at
Community House, the men's shelter, at 1:00 p.m.Visitors are always
welcome to join us and to bring new ideas.
Some examples of our programs on the local level include this
fall's Project 5000, which provided an opportunity to feed the
poor. We also have delivered chopped wood to those needing fuel. In
early December we visited the Orange Correctional Center for
dinner. The committee and several students contributed funds to the
men's culinary class giving the prisoners an opportunity to learn
to prepare special foods. On January 9 the Social Ministry
Committee will have an Epiphany Intergenerational Event during the
Sunday School hour featuring three local and two international
agencies: Freedom House (a facility helping those needing
detoxification and life skills to leave substance abuse behind),
Project HomeStart (the women's and children's shelter), Orange
Correctional Center , El Hogar (an orphanage and technical school
for boys ages 5-16 in Honduras), and Mideast Refugee Resettlement.
Parishioners will have the opportunity to learn about the wonderful
work of these agencies and make something useful for those they
serve. Come and join us on January 9 and be a doer of the Word.
The Chapel of the Cross abounds with opportunities to serve
Christ beyond our parish walls. Please consider these many
opportunities and choose the best place to get involved. Make a
positive difference in the world.
Inter-Faith Council for Social Services
Sally Slack, Social Ministry Committee Member
Late November is a frantic time of year, but when Vivian asked
me to write about the Inter-Faith Council for the next Cross
Roads, I jumped at the chance! Because of the renovation of the
men's shelter last summer, the agency has had a lot of publicity.
The Chapel of the Cross was one of 13 community groups, mostly
churches, that agreed to help host the homeless. The project was
well-planned and executed. We found our overnight guests to be well
behaved, intelligent, and grateful. It was an eye-opener for
several parishioners who have since become regular volunteers at
the reopened shelter.
The IFC offers services at three sites. Community House, at the
corner of Rosemary and Columbia Streets, is a place where homeless
men sleep and anyone can eat three delicious, nutritious meals 365
days a year. (Chapel of the Cross teams prepare and serve meals
there twice a month.) Women and children are housed at Homestart,
on Homestead Road, just beyond Human Services (i.e., the Welfare
Office.) On Mondays I work at the office site on Main Street in
Carrboro (across from Club Nova.) I interview people who need food
(available to clients once a month), clothing (we give PTA Thrift
Shop vouchers), and money for rent and utilities. Applicants are
carefully screened, records are kept, and confidentiality is
maintained. I'm particularly impressed with my supervisor's
insistence that each client's dignity be maintained at all times.
People in need are made to feel welcome to return and are assisted
by means of case management. We don't just help people "over the
hump," we make available other resources so they may become
financially independent. This may involve improved health,
sobriety, vocational training, etc., all of which inevitably
enhance a client's self confidence.
For years, the Chapel of the Cross has had parishioners on the
IFC Board and numerous volunteers who serve in various ways. If
kitchen duties or contact with people in need isn't your thing, you
could be invaluable picking up day-old bread from Harris
Teeter.
For the past two years, our Social Ministry Committee has
sponsored the hugely successful "Project 5000:" nearly 600 boxes
with non-perishable food (enough to feed a family of four for two
days.) This largess clogged the Main Street office periodically in
November and demonstrated a commitment by the Chapel of the Cross:
given the opportunity, our parishioners respond in spades! Under
the leadership of our rector, the vestry, and the Social Ministry
Committee, we've come to realize that, "We are stewards, not
consumers or owners, of all that God gives us." [Stephen
Elkins-Williams, October 2004 , Cross Roads.]
And you know what? It's IFC that makes much of this outreach
possible . . . and easy!
Habitat for Humanity - Empowering through Ownership, Responsibility and Community
Peter DeSaix, Chair, UNC-Student/Chapel of the Cross - Habitat for Humanity Partnership
This year has been another exciting one for the Partnership with
wonderful support from the parish, our student partners, St. Paul
AME, the Department of City and Regional Planning, and the
Kenan-Flagler School of Business. All of these partners have
contributed their "sweat equity" in their efforts to fund the homes
we are building. In addition to building homes locally, the
Partnership's student chapter sent groups to Honduras and Thailand
in our tradition of international service. We thank all of you for
helping to make this possible.
Of necessity, much of our effort has focused on fundraising for
the privilege of providing volunteers to build our homes. This
year's fundraising was highlighted by two successful golf
tournaments that grossed more than $40,000 to help pay for the
homes we are building. Many thanks are due to all those who have
worked to make these tournaments successful.
Our plans for this coming year promise to keep us all busy as we
reach to extend what we can accomplish. The student chapter has
scheduled a "Blitz Build" for this spring. You will hear more about
it in the coming months, but basically they are going to complete
as much of a house as they can in one long weekend. A lot of
coordination and support is required for this endeavor. To this
end, they have invited Millard Fuller, co-founder of Habitat, to
come to UNC to speak. He has accepted and will be here February 8
to help kick off the Blitz Build.
In our efforts to finance these builds, we will have the first
annual Organ Concert for Habitat. Dr. Susan Moeser, the University
Organist, is graciously giving of her time and talent to make this
benefit concert a success.
At least one home is included in our plans for this coming year
in addition to the Blitz Build. With your continued support and
generosity we will be able to build two homes. Our cost for this
privilege is $30,000 per home. Again, student groups from the UNC
student chapter will head off to Honduras and Thailand. There is
also the distinct possibility that our partners in the business
school will also be heading off on an international build.
With final reflections on the year, special thanks are due
Blanche and Henry Clark for their unswerving passion.
Grape Arbor Project
Charles H. Kahn, Grape Arbor Board Member
To live in Chapel Hill is to live, to some degree, under the
fantasy of the "Village of Chapel Hill" concept. In this imaginary
view, the ills of the large urban centers of the country (poverty,
unemployment, single-parent families, limited affordable housing
for the poor, the lack of quality educational opportunities, etc.)
either are not considered by some to be problems or exist so far on
the periphery of our daily lives as to be rendered invisible. Many
of us who live here are aware that the reality consists of a much
closer match to large-city problems than we would care to
admit.
In a period of shrinking social services, few programs are
available to young minority men and women to help address the
effects of this litany of ills inherited from persistent racism and
a still-segregated society. The logical first place to look for
support to be generated is from within their own communities.
Established in 2002 as an outgrowth of St. Paul African Methodist
Episcopal (AME) Church, the Grape Arbor Development Corporation is
a "non-profit organization dedicated to the mission of providing
enrichment and developmental activities to enhance the academic,
personal, and moral development of young people in the Chapel
Hill-Carrboro community through the establishment of a Youth
Enhancement Center." It is fitting that St. Paul, historically the
first church in the area established to minister to the needs of
slaves in the Chapel Hill-Carrboro community, has taken the lead in
establishing this center. The name of the organization, Grape
Arbor, derives from the grape arbor under which the St. Paul
congregation originally met.
To reach out and involve the broader community in this effort,
the founding group from St. Paul has invited representatives from a
number of organizations along with several unaffiliated individuals
active in community programs to join the Board of Directors of
Grape Arbor. Because of the very special relationship between the
Chapel of the Cross and St. Paul AME, it is logical that our parish
be represented on the board. Our rector, Stephen Elkins-Williams -
who with the Rev. John Burton of St. Paul and the Rev. Stephen
Stanley of the Chapel of the Cross was instrumental in the
establishment of the sister parish relationship between the two
churches - is serving on this first broadened board, as is Charles
Kahn, husband of Chapel of the Cross parishioner, Annette Kahn.
At the present time, in addition to several beginning programs
involving area young people, there are two major needs for which
the Board of Grape Arbor is seeking assistance and cooperation from
other individuals and organizations. The first is in the search for
a full-time director for the organization. That search is now under
way. The Search Committee would welcome the addition of other names
to the list now under consideration. The qualifications required
for the position of Director have been published in various
professional newsletters and local newspapers. A copy may be found
on the bulletin board at the Chapel of the Cross. The deadline for
the submission of applications has been extended to December 31,
2004.
The second critical need is to find a location for the
headquarters of Grape Arbor where administrative and program
activities can be housed. Now that the organization is established,
it is the intention of the Board that it operate independently of
St. Paul, although closely tied to and identified with the church.
Grape Arbor has received a grant from the federal government that
may be used to assist in the renovation of any property it may
acquire or lease. The Board is seeking, preferably through property
donation (with the tax advantages that such donation to a
charitable organization accrue to the donor) or long-term property
lease at a low, or preferably free, rent, a building of
approximately 12,000 square feet to house Grape Arbor's activities.
If you have, or know of, any property that might be made available,
please contact Stephen Elkins-Williams.
The Board would also be very receptive to volunteer work in the
areas of academic and language tutoring and other personal
involvements with young people from the Black and Latino
communities. To learn more about Grape Arbor, its programs and
needs, we encourage you to speak with Stephen Elkins-Williams or
with Charles Kahn. The Board sends its best wishes
in this holiday season to the members of the Chapel of the Cross.
Teens United with Churches
Syd Alexander, Board Member, Teens United with Churches
The mission statement:
And God said "Love my Children."
As Christians we believe that God sent his only son
to us that we might know that he loves each of us without
limitation. We believe that every person is a child of God and is
entitled by the grace of God to know that we have each been called
by God to love one another as God loves us. Therefore, with the
help of God, we take these children into our homes and into our
hearts, into our arms and into our souls in order to love them as
God loves us.
Teens United is a nonprofit organization that is pursuing a
collaborative ministry comprised of members of the Church of the
Holy Family, St. Paul AME, and the Chapel of the Cross as well as
other concerned individuals in the community. Its purpose is to
provide local teenagers with crisis assistance, social support, and
independent living resources. The members work within the church
communities to identify families that are willing to parent or
house teens in their homes on a temporary or crisis basis as well
as to provide long term stable support. Additional facets of this
ministry are carried out by providing support through the
furnishing of meals, school supplies, scholarship support,
counseling, shopping trips, tutoring, or transportation for a
variety of purposes. A long-term goal of the organization is to
create and operate a communal home in our community for displaced
teens including young teen parents and their children to provide a
loving stable home environment for those that do not have it.
Teens United is supported by contributions from individuals and
a grant from the Strowd Roses Foundation. For further information
please contact Martha Hart or Laurie or Syd
Alexander.
Would You Like to be an Augustine Tutor?
Harriet King, Tutor
"...Weeping in the bitter agony of my heart, suddenly
I heard a voice from a nearby house, chanting as if it might be a
boy or girl saying and repeating over and over again, "Pick up and
read. Pick up and read.'"
St. Augustine, Confessions
Imagine the quiet of a school library. The only sound comes from
a table by the window. There you hear the rustling of a child's
fingers shaping letters on a piece of bright carpet. A tutor smiles
encouragement as the child looks at an "o" on a card and says "ah"
as she wiggles her hand to suggest an octopus, a word that contains
that short vowel sound. If you can picture this scene, you are
watching an Augustine child beginning her biweekly lesson.
The Augustine Project offers free, 1-on-1, long-term,
multi-sensory, structured tutoring to children and teens from
low-income families. Its goal is to improve their skills in
reading, writing, and spelling. Its tutors receive 70 hours of
instruction in the Orton Gillingham/Wilson teaching approach;
lessons last about 45 minutes and are given in the school setting.
SUCCESS is the key word, and the results of this program, begun in
1994 by Linda McDonough at the Church of the Holy Family, are
remarkable. The project has also been replicated in Houston, TX,
and Winston-Salem, with Charlotte and Greensboro chapters
anticipated in the next few years.
Executive Director Debbie McCarthy says. "We use the analogy of
solidly laying every brick as we build the house of language.
Students who struggle with reading and writing are given the keys
to de-mystify the process." In this way young people at risk can
take a giant step toward academic success. Debbie adds, "I love
seeing what I call 'Helen Keller moments'...when a child who has
struggled and felt beaten down catches on to a concept. The light
and the joy on the faces of the student and tutor at such times
are, for me, sacred...nothing less than the presence of
Christ."
Thanks to Debbie's enthusiasm and Augustine training support, my
own experience as a tutor for the past three years has been
immensely rewarding. Even though I had little background in
teaching elementary school children, I was amazed at the way they
responded to the 1-on-1 situation and to the consistent structure
of every lesson. Each day they can find success and eventually
mastery. The process gives them a strategy to make sense out of
symbols that often seem decipherable only by blind guessing. I am
working for the second year with a very bright 3rd grader who is
still concentrating on short vowel sounds, but he has begun to read
3 and 4 syllable words, such as "athletic," "insistent" and
"embarrassing." He has a passion for books, especially about
dinosaurs and dragons, and his treat every lesson is to look at a
book I bring to him from the Chapel Hill Library.
Currently there are at least six other Augustine tutors in the
Chapel of the Cross community: Laurie Alexander, Mary Chase, Robin
Johnston, Mary McLean, Anna Tabor, and Katherine Dauchert, who has
also replaced Deacon Martha Hart on the Augustine Project Board.
Martha served for six years and comments that it's "a wonderful
program that serves so many low-income children...its growth has
been phenomenal in terms of the number of tutors trained and the
number of children served." Many parishioners have been benefactors
of the project either individually or through foundations, and last
year Katie Healy, one of our Johnson interns, tutored three
children and acted as assistant to the director. The Chapel of the
Cross's Social Ministry Committee strongly supports the project
with discretionary funds and proceeds from the ABC Sale.
The Augustine Project is now serving more than 150 students in
44 schools and after-school programs in the Triangle area.
Eighty-three new tutors completed the training in 2004 - each gives
60 hours of pro bono tutoring when they finish the course - yet the
number of students in need far outweighs the number of available
tutors. Training sessions are offered fall and summer. Would you be
interested in becoming an Augustine tutor? If you would like
further information, contact Debbie McCarthy by email at
augpro760@cs.com. There is also a Web
site, created and maintained by Courtney McCarthy, who attended the
Chapel of the Cross as a UNC sudent, at http://www.augustineproject.org.
Food Bank Book Sale
John and Karen Vernon
John Vernon had visited with Stephen Elkins-Williams a couple of
times over the summer, seeking projects in the community that would
fit into a lay ministry.
Since addressing hunger had been one of John's interests, the
rector invited him to attend a special meeting of Chapel Hill and
Carrboro churches devoted to an unusual fund-raising opportunity
that a foundation was offering the North Carolina Food Bank.
The NC Food Bank provides food for the hungry to the Inter-Faith
Council and 800 other distributing operations throughout 34
counties in central and eastern North Carolina. It serves 375,000
people at risk of hunger (49% of whom are children) by distributing
nearly 2 million pounds of food monthly. That's enough to feed
13,000 people daily! In the wake of Hurricane Floyd, it distributed
5.3 millions pounds.
The rector and John learned that if the NC Food Bank could raise
$300,000 by mid-October, the foundation would match that amount.
One requirement was that the foundation would only count gifts of
$1,000 or more.
The NC Food Bank asked area churches to act as a collecting
point for individual contributions, and when they totaled at least
$1,000 to write a check to the NC Food Bank.
John saw that as a unique and critically important opportunity.
It was important to keep in mind though that the Chapel of the
Cross was already planning to repeat last year's successful Project
5000 food collection program starting in September. It was
important not to compete with that. John went home that night and
talked with Karen, and they offered the rector a more narrowly
focused program to raise funds for the NC Food Bank. With the
rector's blessing, they held a "Free Coffee/Free Home-Baked
Cookies/Free Author-Signed New Books" morning on September 11.
Bruce and Dolly Ladd from our parish helped before and during the
event. So did Hope Hancock, Development Director of the NC Food
Bank.
The invitees were all members of Chapel of the Cross who lived
in Fearrington Village, like John and Karen. Although power in
their home was lost just as Karen put the coffee on, Dolly raced
back to the Ladds' home to make coffee there and bring it back.
Fortunately, the Vernons' power came back on in time. For two hours
friends from the parish and neighbors within the Village came,
visited with each other, picked up a cup of coffee, homemade
cookies and two books each . . . and made generous contributions!
Ultimately, this group, augmented by two friends of the Vernons
from Southern Village, contributed $1,250 to the NC Food Bank.
John and Karen had never doubted that the goal ($1,000) would be
met or exceeded. "After all", they said, "these were Chapel of the
Cross parishioners and Fearringtonians. There was no way they would
fail to meet the need!"
Searching for God
Tammy Lee, Associate for Campus Ministry
Mission trips to Mexico, South Dakota and Appalachia;
pilgrimages to Scotland, Italy and the Holy Land; Youth Inquirers'
journeys to the National Cathedral and Woodland retreats; young
folks and older folks alike going to Durham or Carrboro; all moving
and all in search of the holy in both the ordinary to the
extraordinary. People search for God in many different ways just as
they travel for different reasons....most of the time motives are
mixed if they are faithful.
The Emperor Constantine's mother Helena is credited for starting
the pilgrimage route to the Holy Land, wanting to see for herself
the very places that her Savior walked so that she might understand
more fully who the Christ was. I'm sure getting out of town was
also appealing, as was the spirit of adventure, though travel in
her day was most treacherous. Only 300 plus years separated her
steps from Christ's and she thought she might find something life
changing.
Our young people have spent summer vacations working to clothe
the naked in thrift shops and feed the hungry children through
federal meal programs and take care of widows and orphans by
painting houses or building bathrooms or running Bible schools in
places as diverse as inner city Juarez and rural South Dakota. They
often state their primary reason for going is that they have never
been on a plane before, or they have never been to this that or the
other state before, or their friends are going, or they need
service hours.
For 10 years, the Youth Inquirers' Class has ridden on a bus
each winter to explore their faith history in our nation's capitol,
learning that the stones that comprise the National Cathedral tell
a salvation history that they and their families are a part of.
They are not required to go, and many say, "I've already been to
Washington, and I don't want to go again." We take them because it
forms a community of people all working to know their place in the
life of God's kingdom, sometimes for the first time.
People often ask, "Why can't we just stay here and learn these
things? Are there not poor people in Orange County? Are there not
places that are unexplored here where God's glory is evident?" The
answer to these questions is yes, but I have come to understand and
believe some truths are often best learned out of one's comfort
zone and context. When you sleep on a roach-infested floor for a
week and take only a cold shower to wash the sweat off after
working a full day in 120 degree heat to build a bathroom for a
widow and her children, it is a life-altering experience. When you
walk up to the Vietnam Memorial in Washington, DC, and trace your
fingers across the name of your uncle after you have prayed in the
War Chapel at the Cathedral, it is life changing. When you hear
your prayers of petition or songs of praise echo off the walls of
an eighth-century abbey or in a remote cave in the Judean desert,
it changes you.
Such experiences express the wideness of God's mercy,
geographically, spiritually, and mentally challenging us to see God
in places far away but more accurately to see God when we come home
here in our own back yards. We have walked on the Road to Emmaus
and our eyes are opened and we recognize. Our young people are
primed for service after a summer mission trip, and it doesn't mean
they wait until the next plane ride to serve their neighbor.
Communities form in the backs of buses whether they are on I-95 or
rural roads in small countries across the big pond.
Jesus often went as far away as he could to think about things
or gain perspective or make a plan for action in a world that he
knew would always have the poor in it, not just poor in mammon but
poor in spirit and generosity and faith and hope. As I think back
upon all these journeys - be they mission or pilgrimage or
community-building - each one has had a moment that altered my
vision, if not forever at least for the foreseeable future. You are
invited to think about your own journeys in the same ways, asking
as you move about this world in search of the God who comes among
us as one of us, "What am I learning here that I cannot learn at
home? How am I different because of this venture? What am I being
asked to do differently because of this experience?" You might be
surprised by what emerges!
Mission Trips
Bill Joyner, Deacon
There is always some concern expressed, when our young people or
adults go on a mission trip, that the effort and money could be
better spent closer to home, that there are enough areas for
ministry in Chapel Hill and Orange County, that going some place
more exotic like Costa Rica or Barbados or even western North
Carolina is wasteful. But there is a danger that looking only
locally limits our vision of what the Church is and what our place
is in it, and in what the "needs, concerns, and hopes of the world"
really are, to borrow a phrase from the ordination of deacons. I
will not argue that going far away is an efficient use of
resources, but I will suggest that the benefits of mission trips
(a) exceed any monetary yardstick, (b) are part of our calling as
the Chapel of the Cross, and (c) accrue not only to those who
participate and to those with whom they work in faraway locations,
but to other parishioners as well.
It can be trite to say that we receive more benefit from going
on a mission trip than do those we go to "help," but it is true! To
see the face of the same God we worship in other places and other
lands helps us live into the baptismal promise to seek and serve
Christ in all persons, loving our neighbors as ourselves. Our
parish mission statement calls us to bear faithful witness to the
presence of the living God, not just here, but throughout all the
world. And the whole parish participates in global mission in this
way, sending groups out with their resources and their prayers, and
sharing with them the joy of their service when they return.
In 1999 we learned the song below with our new friends among the
Anglicans of eastern Costa Rica. It reminds us that our mission is
not to others we see as in need of our help, but with our partners
in carrying out the work of the church in the world.
There is only one God.
There is only one King.
There is only one family.
That is why we sing.
Bind us together, Lord.
Bind us together
With cords that cannot be broken.
Bind us together, Lord.
Bind us together, Lord.
Bind us together in love.
Because of our recent high school and college group trips, we
may think that these trips are only for the young! But our history
of building churches in Costa Rica together with our friends from
Saint Paul needs to be built on and added to. I invite any who are
interested in a mission trip in 2005 to contact me!
Reflections on a Pilgriamage to Scotland
Bob and Mary Chase
The first time we met as pilgrims at the Chapel of the Cross, we
were asked why we had been drawn to this journey. Some answered
that they had read extensively about Celtic spirituality and it
would be intriguing to travel to Scotland with soul friends. Others
mentioned Scottish ancestry and still others were drawn by a love
of Celtic art, music and dance. The first night we were together in
Scotland we were again asked this question, and this time our
answers were much more insightful and personal. One pilgrim had
traveled with us because a friend, who has since died, had
encouraged her to join our group. Several travelers, who had been
on former pilgrimages with our leader, had experienced "thin"
places, places where they had felt a particular closeness of God's
presence, and this had brought them back again. Some were
struggling from a spiritual hunger, in search of a God we all long
to know more intimately. A community was formed that evening - all
of us searching for more meaning in our lives, spiritual growth,
and opportunities to hear God speak to us and for us to listen.
Our leader was Sister Cintra Pemberton, a member of the
Episcopal Order of St. Helena for the past 25 years, and now
residing in Augusta, Georgia. This was to be Cintra's last
pilgrimage. Our parish leaders were Tammy Lee and Gretchen Jordan.
One of the best gifts of the journey was how beautifully organized
the entire trip was. Every room reservation, every need for
transportation, every meal, every museum ticket, every detail had
been tended to, allowing us the luxury of being served and the
freedom just to be.
Over a two-week period we found ourselves traveling to holy
places, walking through trees that formed a cathedral ceiling high
overhead as we wound our way to a beach that had rounded rocks with
veins of silica running through them forming a cross, holding
Eucharistic services in historic abbey ruins and an ancient castle,
hiking slippery slopes holding hands to help one another reach the
top of an ancient fort and to a beach where we had to wait for
sheep to pass; washing our faces at a holy well. We visited ancient
sites and museums seeing man-made things 4,000 to 5,000 years old.
We heard fascinating and inspiring lectures and reflections by
Philip Newell and Ian Bradley, and we worshipped on Sundays in
small Anglican churches where hospitality was beyond gracious. We
prayed together for one another, and quietly reflected on all we
were experiencing.
Our richest time was on the Isle of Iona. It took a day to reach
Iona and it seemed like we were traveling to the end of the earth.
As we neared the island, the light shining through the clouds was
exquisite. The simplicity of the island makes it a special place of
spiritual significance. At the St. Columba Hotel where we stayed
there are no phones, no televisions, and no keys to the rooms. The
sheep keep the natural 18-hole golf course cropped! The Scottish
isles have a natural beauty made green by almost daily rains, but
when the sun comes out there are magnificent rainbows and they are
almost daily, too.
We are deeply grateful for the ones who led us and for those who
were travelers on the road with us. We began our time together with
no expectations and that made every bit of our journey even more of
a gift.
So Did Santa Bring You a New Electronic "Toy"? What Now?
Linda B. Rimer, Environmental Stewardship Committee Chair
Chances are great that many of you asked for - and received -
multiple electronic gadgets for Christmas. These gadgets might have
included computers, monitors, cell phones, televisions, audio and
stereo equipment, VCRs, DVD players, video cameras, fax and copying
machines, wireless devices, and video game consoles.
Chances are also great that many of these gadgets were
"replacements" for older models of the same type equipment. Over
the last two decades, amazing advancements in technology have led
to a dramatic increase in our reliance on these electronic
products. When you add to this the fact that the rate of innovation
has significantly reduced the average lifespan of these same
products (e.g. the life span of a computer has been reduced from
perhaps four to five years to approaching two years or less), what
you get is an ever-growing rate of electronic, or "e-waste" going
into our waste streams.
E-waste represents from two to five percent of the U.S.
municipal solid waste stream. In a 2000 study, the US EPA reported
that more than 20 million personal computers became obsolete in
1998 and only 13 percent were reused or recycled. An estimated
300,000 tons of e-waste ended up in U.S. landfills in 2000 and the
problem is growing very rapidly. From 1997 to 2007, it is estimated
that 500 million personal computers will become obsolete. A large
number of televisions are expected to be disposed of when high
definition television becomes widely available.
Concern for this part of the waste stream goes beyond a "space
in the landfill" issue. E-waste contains hazardous materials, such
as lead, mercury, and hexavalent chromium, in circuit boards,
batteries, and color cathode ray tubes (CRTs). Television and CRT
monitors contain four to seven pounds of lead, depending on the
size and make. Mercury from electronics has been cited as a leading
source of mercury in municipal waste. Estimates of e-waste exported
from the US to countries such as India, China and Pakistan are 50
to 80 percent. Once exported, workers in these countries often work
without health-protective equipment when they disassemble computers
by hand to remove materials such as copper, aluminum, and
steel.
What can you do if you want to be a good steward of God's
creation but also want to own the latest and greatest e-gadget?
There are several options for you to consider and pursue,
specifically: reuse and donation, recycling, and buying greener
electronic products.
Reuse:Donating electronics for reuse extends the lives of
products, keeping them out of the waste stream for a longer time
and minimizes the pollution and resource consumption associated
with making new products. By donating used electronics, you allow
schools, non-profit organizations, and lower-income families to use
equipment that they otherwise could not afford.
Recycle: A growing number of local governments are
offering computer and electronics collections as part of household
hazardous waste collections or special events. Recycling
electronics avoids pollution and the need to extract valuable and
limited virgin resources.
Buy green:You can encourage electronics manufacturers to
design greener electronics by purchasing products with
environmentally preferable attributes and by requesting take-back
options at the time of purchase.
Look for electronics that:
- Are energy efficient (look for the "Energy Star" label)
- Use recycled content
- Are designed for easy upgrading or disassembly
- Use minimal packaging
- Offer leasing or take-back options
Here are Websites where you can find more information and hone
your skills as a good environmental steward!
http://www.co.orange.nc.us/recycling/a-z-recyclery.asp#computerequipment
(Orange County)
http://www.goodwill.org/index_gii.cfm/2648
http://www-132.ibm.com/content/search/computer-disposal.html
http://www.p2pays.org/electronics/
Masankho Banda, International Peace Activist and Performing Artist Coming to the Triangle
"Play breathes life into our communities, so that we can
move beyond tolerance toward multicultural health," says
Masankho Banda, a multi-disciplinary educator, performing artist
and internationally recognized peace builder. Banda will teach and
perform in the Triangle January 7-9. His visit is co-sponsored by
the St. Mark's Raleigh Episcopal Peace Fellowship, the
Interfaith Alliance of Wake County, InterPlay North Carolina, and a
number of churches and community organizations. In 2001, Banda
received an Unsung Hero of Compassion award from His Holiness, the
Dalai Lama for his global peacebuilding work. "Restoring
playfulness, creativity, and authentic curiosity encourages mutual
commitment and understanding -- all seeds for peace," says
Banda, who educates, inspires, and entertains with stories,
dancing, drumming, and ritual rooted in Malawi, Africa, where he
grew up.
You're invited to experience Masankho's artistry,
compassion, wisdom, and playful spirit at these events:
Pathways to Peace Presentation, Friday, January 7, 8
p.m.
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Raleigh, 3313 Wade Ave.,
Raleigh
Seeding Cultures of Peace Workshop, Saturday, January
8, 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m.
Church of The Good Shepherd, 125 Hillsborough St., Raleigh
Seeding Cultures of Peace Concert, Saturday, January
8, 8:00 p.m.
First Baptist Church, corner of Hillsborough and Salisbury Sts.,
Raleigh
InterPlay for World Peace Workshop, Sunday, January
9, 3:00-6:00 p.m.
Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 4907 Garrett Rd.,
Durham
For more information, contact Ginny Going or Tom
Henderson, interplaync@nc.rr.com
January 2 Carol Sing
10:20 - 11:05 a.m. Dining Room
Christmastide is the season to sing joyfully the Christmas
carols! All ages will gather in the dining room on the first Sunday
of 2005. Adult and youth instrumentalist will accompany us in
singing some of the favorites. Instrumentalists sharing their gifts
include Mary Schoenfield and Nancy Nelson on the piano, Jill Shires
on flute, Emma Lo on violin, Margie Shaffer on tenor saxophone,
Chase McBride on viola, Harrison Fahrer and Stephen Elkins-Williams
on guitar, Ted Everhart on clarinet, and Greg Bell on accordion.
Other instrumentalist are welcome to participate, just arrive with
your instrument and music!
Epiphany Pot Luck Dinner And Solemn Evensong
January 6, Dinner at 6:00 pm, Service at 7:30
p.m.
We will share dinner at 6:00 p.m. in the dining room.
Please bring a dish to share. Ham, drinks, and Kings' Cake Cupcakes
will be provided.
Solemn Evensong begins at 7:30 p.m. Junior and Senior
Choirs will sing.
Epiphany Intergenerational Event
January 9, 10:20-11:05 a.m.
Sponsored by the Social Ministry Committee
Parish-supported programs to be highlighted are Freedom House,
Project Homestart, Orange County Correctional Facility, Mideast
Refugee Resettlement, and Rape Crisis Center. This
intergenerational event will engage all ages in learning about the
work of five parish-supported programs and provide tangible items
to be given to the participants in the programs.
January Events
2 10:20 am Intergenerational Carol Sing. An
intergenerational event in the dining room following the 9:00
service. Youth and adult instrumentalists will accompany us in
singing favorite carols of Christmastide. A visit from Saint
Nicholas is anticipated.
3 Parish Office Closed for New Year's.
7:00 pm Convocation Meeting at St. Philip's, Durham.
6:00 pm Epiphany Pot Luck Dinner.
7:30 pm Solemn Evensong for the Feast of the Epiphany.
8 9:00 am Vestry Budget Retreat.
9 10:20 am Intergenerational Epiphany Event. The
Social Ministry Committee will teach us about 6 outreach programs
of the parish and engage participants in making items for program
recipients.
10 7:30 pm Adult Inquirers' Class. Dr. Pfaff will lead the first
of two classes on Church history.
14-16 Youth Inquirers' Class Trip to Washington, DC.
Vestry Nomination Period begins.
10:20 am Parents of Teens, support and education
group for parents of Middle and High School age youth to explore
the current challenges of parenting, Room 31.
10:20 am Adult Forum. Former UNC President William
Friday will lead the presentation on Moral Values, Chapel.
Parish Office Closed for MLK Day.
17 7:30 pm Adult Inquirers' Class. Dr. Pfaff will lead
the second of two classes on Church history.
20-22 Diocesan Convention, Sheraton, Research Triangle Park.
23 10:20 am Diocesan Convention Report, Chapel.
10:20 am Parents of Teens, Room 31.
10:20 am Parent Gathering. Beyond Setting Limits with
Lynne Johnston, Campus Center
24 7:30 pm Adult Inquirers' Class. Mr. Elkins-Williams
will lead the class on Worship and Sacrament.
30 10:20 am Burning Questions, Chapel.
10:20 am Parents of Teens, Room 31.
10:20 am Parent Gathering: Beyond Setting Limits with
Lynne Johnston, Campus Center.
10:20 am Newcomers Orientation, Parlor.
6:30 pm Vestry Nomination Period Closes.
31 7:30 pm Adult Inquirers' Class. Mr. Frazelle will
lead the class on Moral Decision Making.
Liturgical Readings and Preachers for January
Sunday, January 2 The Second
Sunday after Christmas
Psalm 84; Jeremiah 31:7-14; Ephesians 1:3-6,15-19a; Matthew
2:13-15,19-23
7:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Mr.
Elkins-Williams
9:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Dr. Joyner
10:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II The Rev. Ralph
Smith (Carolina Meadows)
11:15 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Dr. Joyner
5:15 p.m. Holy Matrimony and
Holy Eucharist Rite II Mr.
Elkins-Williams
Sunday, January 9 The First Sunday
after the Epiphany
Psalm 89:1-29; Isaiah 42:1-9; Acts 10:34-38; Matthew 3:13-17
7:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Ms. Lee
9:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Mr.
Elkins-Williams
11:15 a.m. Holy Baptism and
Holy Eucharist Rite II Mr.
Elkins-Williams
4:00 p.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Mr.
Smith (Carol Woods)
5:15 p.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Ms.
Jamieson-Drake
Sunday, January 16 The Second Sunday after
the Epiphany
Psalm 40:1-10; Isaiah 49:1-7; I Corinthians 1:1-9; John
1:29-41
7:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Ms.
Jamieson-Drake
9:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Ms. Lee
11:15 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Ms. Lee
5:15 p.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Ms. Lee
9:30 p.m. Sung Compline
Sunday, January 23 The Third Sunday after
the Epiphany
Psalm 139:1-17; Amos 3:1-8; I Corinthians 1:10-17; Matthew
4:12-23
7:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Mr.
Elkins-Williams
9:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Ms.
Jamieson-Drake
11:15 a.m. Morning Prayer and
Holy Eucharist Rite I Ms.
Jamieson-Drake
4:00 p.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Ms.
Jamieson-Drake (Carol Woods)
5:15 p.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Dr. Morley
9:30 p.m. Sung Compline
Sunday, January 30 The Fourth Sunday after
the Epiphany
Psalm 37:1-18; Micah 6:1-8; I Corinthians 1:(18-25)26-31;
Matthew 5:1-12
7:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite I Dr. Morley
9:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Mr. Frazelle
11:15 a.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Mr. Frazelle
5:15 p.m. Holy Eucharist Rite II Mr. Frazelle
9:30 p.m. Sung Compline